Nobody Told Me! Joseph Burgo: ...how to free myself from feelings of shame
May 24, 2024
In this enlightening discussion, Joseph Burgo, a psychotherapist and author of 'Shame: Free Yourself, Find Joy, and Build True Self-Esteem', reveals how shame operates on a spectrum from mild embarrassment to deep humiliation. He explains the paradox of shame as both a hindrance and a catalyst for personal growth. Burgo also addresses the impact of social media on self-esteem versus narcissism and emphasizes the power of vulnerability in fostering genuine connections. Humor, he argues, can be a powerful tool in navigating shame and addiction.
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Burgo's Personal Shame
- Joseph Burgo hid his true sexuality to maintain a seemingly perfect life.
- This charade ended with his marriage, forcing him to confront his shame.
Shame Avoidance
- Many people prioritize appearances over confronting their shame.
- It's often easier to maintain a facade than face potential judgment.
Shame Spectrum
- Shame exists on a spectrum of intensity and duration.
- It ranges from fleeting self-consciousness to lingering humiliation.
