
Nobody Told Me!
(Apple Podcast's Best of 2018) When mother-daughter duo Jan Black and Laura Owens first conceptualized their two-generational talk show, nobody told them they’d snag the title of #1 self-help podcast for months on end! But that’s exactly what they’ve done, delving into topics as far-flung as network building, the importance of failure, finding hope after being kidnapped, and how the principles of brain surgery can help us work through everyday problems. Featuring interviews with extraordinary individuals, Nobody Told Me! shines light on the shared human experiences that bring us together, and the challenges that serve as catalysts for our greatest growth. Nobody Told Me! combines Jan’s impressive broadcast journalism background with Laura’s unique, millennial perspective. Driven by a genuine desire to educate and empower, their pioneering platform gives insight into the strategies and secrets of people in all walks of life. Equal parts information and inspiration, Nobody Told Me! brings a personal touch to the interview process. Together, Jan and Laura are asking the questions that help their listeners get through life’s toughest times.
Latest episodes

Apr 24, 2025 • 27min
Rossana D’Antonio: ...that I’d spend years proving what really happened in 26 seconds
In this unforgettable episode of Nobody Told Me, we sit down with Rossana D’Antonio — engineer, truth-seeker, and author of the haunting memoir 26 Seconds: Grief and Blame in the Aftermath of Losing My Brother in a Plane Crash. Rosanna talks about the day her younger brother Cesare died in a commercial plane crash just moments before he was supposed to land safely. But this isn’t just a story about a tragedy. It’s about what happens after the cameras leave. After the system points fingers. After your loved one is blamed for their own death. Rossana opens up about the heartbreak of losing Cesare, the painful process of watching him be scapegoated by the airline industry, and the years she spent digging through wreckage — literal and emotional — to uncover the truth. Together, we talk about grief, rage, silence, memory, and what it means to become your loved one’s final advocate. This conversation is raw, real, and deeply human. If you’ve ever felt powerless after a loss, or if you’ve ever had to fight to be believed, Rossana’s words will stay with you long after the episode ends.

Mar 27, 2025 • 38min
Dr. Guy Winch: …that grieving a pet can hurt just as much as losing a person—and that pain deserves to be honored
We’re joined by Dr. Guy Winch, a licensed psychologist, bestselling author, and one of the world’s leading voices in emotional health. You might know him from his powerful TED Talks, viewed over 35 million times, or from his bestselling books like Emotional First Aid and How to Fix a Broken Heart. In this episode, we talk with Guy about something so many of us experience but rarely know how to navigate: the grief of losing a pet. Guy explains why that grief can feel just as intense—or even more so—than losing a human loved one, and why it’s crucial that we treat pet loss with the same compassion, validation, and care. He shares deeply personal stories, as well as science-backed advice on how to process our feelings, memorialize our pets, and let ourselves heal without shame. To learn more about his work, visit guywinch.com.

Mar 24, 2025 • 29min
Gabby Bernstein: …that feeling my pain wasn’t the problem—running from it was
Gabby is a #1 New York Times bestselling author, spiritual teacher, motivational speaker, and podcast host who has been a guiding light for millions seeking healing, clarity, and purpose. For over 18 years, Gabby has helped people transform their lives by teaching them how to tap into their inner power, release fear, and live with more faith and peace. She’s the author of numerous beloved books, including The Universe Has Your Back, Super Attractor, and Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace, which chronicles her own courageous journey through trauma and into deep healing. Named “a new thought leader” by Oprah and widely known for her raw honesty, spiritual groundedness, and compassionate wisdom, Gabby has inspired a global movement of people choosing love over fear. She joins us to share the tools that changed her life—and how we can use them to change ours. Learn more at gabbybernstein.com.

Mar 21, 2025 • 35min
Marc Randolph: ...that every idea sounds bad at first—but if you love the problem, you’ll find the solution
Marc is a veteran Silicon Valley entrepreneur, advisor, and investor—but you probably know him best as the co-founder and first CEO of Netflix. Under his leadership, Netflix grew from an idea sketched out on a car ride to a revolutionary company that transformed how the world consumes entertainment. Marc is also the author of the bestselling book That Will Never Work: The Birth of Netflix and the Amazing Life of an Idea, where he shares the behind-the-scenes story of Netflix’s early days—and the lessons he learned about risk-taking, innovation, and resilience. In addition to his work as a founder and thought leader, Marc is a sought-after speaker and mentor, passionate about helping the next generation of entrepreneurs turn their ideas into reality. He’s here today to talk about the highs and lows of building something from nothing, what it takes to keep believing in yourself, and why the words “that will never work” might just be the greatest motivation of all. Learn more at marcrandolph.com.

Mar 19, 2025 • 47min
Elizabeth Smart: …that it’s not what happens to you that defines you—it’s the choices you make next
On this episode, we are honored to welcome Elizabeth Smart, one of the most inspiring guests we’ve ever had. In 2002, at just fourteen years old, Elizabeth was abducted at knifepoint from her home in Utah by a pedophile, enduring nine months of unimaginable abuse, captivity, and terror before her courageous rescue and reunion with her family. Despite the trauma she endured, Elizabeth has transformed her experience into a powerful force for advocacy, resilience, and hope. As a bestselling author, speaker, and child safety activist, she has dedicated her life to empowering survivors and pushing for change in the fight against sexual exploitation and abduction. Her book, Where There's Hope: Healing, Moving Forward, and Never Giving Up, is an inspiring guide to resilience and recovery, offering wisdom and encouragement for anyone facing adversity. You can learn more about Elizabeth and her work at elizabethsmart.com.

Mar 18, 2025 • 28min
Dr. Drew Pinsky: …that trust, compassion, and boundaries aren’t just important in relationships—they’re everything
We are a mother-daughter duo, and on this episode, we’re joined by a father-daughter duo—Dr. Drew Pinsky and his daughter, Paulina. Dr. Drew is a practicing internist and addiction medicine specialist, as well as a New York Times bestselling author. You probably know him as a trusted voice in medicine, mental health, and relationships from his decades of TV, radio, and podcast appearances, including Loveline, Celebrity Rehab, and Dr. Drew on Call. His expertise has made him a go-to resource for navigating the complexities of human behavior, addiction, and personal growth. Joining him is his daughter, Paulina Pinsky, a writer and educator with a unique perspective on relationships, identity, and consent. Together, they’ve co-authored the insightful and much-needed book, It Doesn’t Have to Be Awkward: Dealing with Relationships, Consent, and Other Hard-to-Talk-About Stuff, which aims to help young people and their parents have open, meaningful conversations about life’s most important topics. Today, they join us to discuss the power of honest communication, the evolving landscape of relationships, and how to foster healthy connections in an ever-changing world.

Mar 18, 2025 • 31min
Humble the Poet: …that love isn’t something you earn—it’s something you allow.
We’re excited to welcome Humble The Poet to the show! Born Kanwer Singh, Humble The Poet is a Canadian-born writer, musician, spoken word artist, and former schoolteacher whose work explores self-discovery, resilience, and personal growth. With a unique blend of raw honesty, poetic insight, and cultural wisdom, he has captivated audiences worldwide through his bestselling books, including Unlearn: 101 Simple Truths for a Better Life, Things No One Else Can Teach Us, and How to Be Love(d). His thought-provoking words have inspired millions to rethink their perspectives, embrace discomfort, and find their own path to fulfillment. Beyond writing, Humble The Poet’s work spans music, public speaking, and creative storytelling, all with the goal of challenging norms and encouraging deep reflection. Today, he joins us to share his wisdom on unlearning the lessons that no longer serve us and embracing the beauty of imperfection. Learn more at humblethepoet.com.

Mar 17, 2025 • 36min
Dr. Delatorro McNeal: …that how you do anything is not how you do everything
We’re thrilled to welcome Dr. Delatorro McNeal II to the show! A renowned peak performance expert, bestselling author, and Hall of Fame keynote speaker, Dr. Delatorro has spent decades helping people unlock their fullest potential in business, leadership, and life. He’s the author of Shift Into a Higher Gear: Better Your Best and Live Life to the Fullest, a powerful guide to breaking through barriers and accelerating success. With an electrifying stage presence and a gift for transforming mindsets, he’s worked with Fortune 500 companies, top athletes, and high achievers worldwide. Today, he’s here to share how you can step into your greatness, take charge of your future, and create the life you truly want. Learn more at delatorro.com.

Mar 14, 2025 • 29min
Captain Sandy Yawn: ...that sometimes you have to go the opposite direction to get where you’re meant to be
We’re thrilled to welcome the legendary Captain Sandy Yawn to the show! With over 30 years of international maritime experience, Captain Sandy has navigated the high seas and the high stakes of leadership, earning worldwide recognition as the star of Bravo’s hit reality series, Below Deck Mediterranean. Beyond the drama of television, she’s a trailblazer in her field, proving that resilience, adaptability, and strong leadership can chart the course for success—on land and at sea. She shares her wisdom in her book, Be The Calm or Be The Storm: Leadership Lessons from a Woman at the Helm, offering powerful insights into navigating challenges with confidence. She’s also the co-host of The Captain Sandy and Leah Rae Show podcast, where she continues to inspire with her leadership lessons and personal journey. Learn more at captainsandyyawn.com.

Mar 3, 2025 • 34min
Martha Beck: ...to stop living for approval
On this episode of Nobody Told Me!, we are beyond honored to welcome the legendary Martha Beck—one of the most influential thought leaders of our time. A Harvard-trained sociologist, New York Times bestselling author, and the woman Oprah Winfrey calls her ‘life coach,’ Martha has helped millions of people around the world break free from fear, self-doubt, and societal expectations to create lives of radical authenticity. Her book, The Way of Integrity: Finding the Path to Your True Self, became an instant bestseller and was named Oprah’s Book of the Year. As the founder of the Wayfinder Life Coach Training Program, she has redefined what it means to be a coach, mentor, and guide for those seeking clarity and purpose. You can learn more about her groundbreaking work at marthabeck.com.
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