Jocko discusses his biggest change of opinion, advice for SOF newlyweds, dealing with passive-aggressive people, best ratio of drilling to sparring in BJJ, following stoicism, and how to smash days when you don't feel like it. They also talk about interesting internet stuff, Onnit products, Amazon support, and new merchandise on the Jocko Store.
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Quick takeaways
Finding a balance between drilling and sparring in training is essential for individual progress and enjoyment.
Approaches for dealing with overly aggressive training partners include shutting them down and providing guidance and reminders to relax.
Pushing through on days when motivation is low is crucial for success, and can be achieved by staying disciplined and going through the motions.
Caring about what co-workers think and addressing criticism head-on is important for personal growth and achieving success in both personal and professional life.
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Best ratio of drilling to sparring
While it's important to drill, the preference for drilling versus sparring varies for each individual. A general approach is to try to spend a third of your training time on drilling. However, some may find enjoyment and progress through more sparring, while others prioritize drilling. Ultimately, find a balance that works for you.
Dealing with an over-aggressive partner
If you encounter someone who is overly aggressive during training, there are a few approaches you can take. If you are a higher belt, focus on shutting them down and immobilizing them to drain their intensity. Offer guidance and a reminder to relax between rounds. If you are a lower belt, you have the option to match their intensity or choose to work your techniques while avoiding unnecessary confrontation. In both cases, maintaining a respectful tone and helping them understand the benefits of controlled training can be beneficial.
The Importance of Working Through Challenges
Even on days when you're not feeling motivated or tired, it's crucial to push through and get things done.
Overcoming the Desire to Rest
The temptation to take the easy path of least resistance and rest can be overcome by simply going through the motions and staying on the disciplined path.
Supporting the Podcast
To support the podcast, you can check out the supplements available at onit.com/jocko, where you can get a 10% discount.
The Importance of Addressing Criticism from Co-workers
The podcast discusses the significance of caring about what co-workers think and how criticism can indicate areas for improvement. It emphasizes the need to address criticism head-on and identify the root of the issue in order to grow and achieve success. The concept of internal and external extreme ownership is explored, highlighting the importance of finding the right balance in taking ownership without overstepping boundaries. The podcast also touches on the idea of using decentralized command and trusting others to lead, while still being accountable for overall project success.
Critiques of Extreme Ownership and Its Application in Different Contexts
The episode examines the arguments against extreme ownership, focusing on two main examples. The first example questions the heavy emphasis on strategy and tactics without considering the worthiness of the objective. The second example highlights the potential negative consequences of using extreme ownership to exploit vulnerable individuals. However, the podcast counters these arguments by emphasizing the importance of believing in the mission and aligning actions with moral values. It also addresses the balance between personal and professional commitments, highlighting the need to prioritize family while still taking ownership and pursuing success in all areas of life.
0:00:00 - Opening 0:12:06 - Jocko's Biggest change of opinion. 0:39:23 - Advice for Newlywed Special Operations Forces Wives 0:55:06 - BJJ: Best ratio of Drilling to Sparring. Dealing with Spazzes on the mats 1:13:46 - How to deal with Passive-aggressive People 1:27:16 - The best argument against Extreme Ownership 1:39:51 - Following Stoicism. 1:53:06 - How to deal with days when you "Don't feel like it." 1:56:24 - Interesting Internet, Onnit, Amazon, and Jocko Store stuff. 2:10:40 - Closing Gratitude