

Dating Is Hard: Why Forgiveness Isn’t Always The Answer w/Lori Gottlieb EP 1190
Nov 17, 2021
Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and bestselling author, dives into the complexities of modern dating and relationships. She highlights why love is harder to find today and sheds light on unhealthy patterns stemming from childhood. The discussion reveals the emotional turmoil behind infidelity and the importance of understanding narcissism. Lori questions the necessity of forgiveness for healing and emphasizes genuine emotional processing. She offers insights on nurturing healthier relationship dynamics, underscoring the role of self-reflection and open communication.
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Love's Paradox
- Finding love is complicated because wanting and fearing closeness coexist.
- Love can wound and heal, so ruptures and repairs are inevitable.
Rupture and Repair
- Ruptures, or disagreements, will always occur in relationships.
- Repairing these ruptures is key for relationship success.
Understanding vs. Agreement
- Feeling understood is crucial in relationships, more so than agreement.
- Prioritize understanding your partner's perspective, even if you differ.