Episode 274: Helen and Philip Share Their Miscarriage Story & How to Support Loved Ones

May 31, 2024

Helen and Philip share their heartbreaking miscarriage story, shedding light on the taboo topic to reduce stigma. They discuss the emotional rollercoaster, societal pressures, and the need for supportive communities during such difficult experiences.

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Introduction

00:00 • 2min

Talking Openly About Miscarriage

01:41 • 4min

Exploring the Realities of Pregnancy and Miscarriage

06:02 • 4min

Navigating the Emotional Turmoil of a Potential Miscarriage

10:27 • 7min

Navigating Hope and Uncertainty in Pregnancy and Communication

17:57 • 2min

Emotional Blood Draw Experience in the Quest Diagnostics

19:59 • 3min

Coping with Grief: A Personal Account of Miscarriage

22:33 • 20min

Navigating Miscarriage: Breaking the Silence

42:16 • 9min

Earlier this year, Helen went through a miscarriage, and since then she’s been navigating this devastating loss alongside her husband Philip. From doctor visits to sharing the news, every step along the way has been a difficult one. It’s unfortunate to learn that about 25% of pregnancies end in miscarriage, and expectant parents often have to go through their grief in silence, and alone. For this reason, Helen and Philip want to share their personal story to bring more visibility to the experience of miscarriage and reduce the stigma around talking about it. They also offer some tips for how we as a community can support loved ones going through similar experiences.

To anyone who has experienced such loss, we see you, and our hearts go out to you.

*Content Warning: This episode deals with the difficult topics of grief and loss, along with some graphic details surrounding the miscarriage experience.

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Host: Helen Wu

Guest: Philip Wang

Editor: Michelle Hsieh

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