Episode 274: Helen and Philip Share Their Miscarriage Story & How to Support Loved Ones

May 31, 2024

Helen and Philip share their heartbreaking miscarriage story, shedding light on the taboo topic to reduce stigma. They discuss the emotional rollercoaster, societal pressures, and the need for supportive communities during such difficult experiences.

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Sudden Miscarriage Symptoms

Helen started bleeding unexpectedly while constipated at a cafe and feared miscarriage.
This sudden event shocked them despite no prior fertility issues or concerns.

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Emotional Toll of Medical Tests

During blood tests, Helen struggled physically and emotionally, feeling her body's failure.
The emotional pain peaked when a deep needle prick made her cry in frustration.

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Graphic Miscarriage Experience

Helen experienced passing large clots during miscarriage, a deeply strange and graphic sensation.
She instinctively collected the tissue, questioning if it was her baby, highlighting the physical reality of loss.

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Earlier this year, Helen went through a miscarriage, and since then she’s been navigating this devastating loss alongside her husband Philip. From doctor visits to sharing the news, every step along the way has been a difficult one. It’s unfortunate to learn that about 25% of pregnancies end in miscarriage, and expectant parents often have to go through their grief in silence, and alone. For this reason, Helen and Philip want to share their personal story to bring more visibility to the experience of miscarriage and reduce the stigma around talking about it. They also offer some tips for how we as a community can support loved ones going through similar experiences.

To anyone who has experienced such loss, we see you, and our hearts go out to you.

*Content Warning: This episode deals with the difficult topics of grief and loss, along with some graphic details surrounding the miscarriage experience.

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Host: Helen Wu

Guest: Philip Wang

Editor: Michelle Hsieh

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