hot pursuit by AsianBossGirl

hot take: sibling order can determine your personailty as much as a horoscope can! the hot pursuit girls share their differing experiences growing up: jen as an only child, emily as an older sister to a younger sister, & madelyn as a younger sister to an older brother! between the 3 of us, we cover all the bases! 0:00 our sibling orders 2:12 older sis: being the good example 7:47 older sis: absorbing as the unsung heroes 13:33 older sis: being highly considerate of others 15:09 older sis: paving the way 17:53 older sis: nurturing and protective instincts 22:10 only child: duty and responsibility 29:54 only child: closeness with parents 33:52 only child: hyperindependence  35:55 only child: chosen sisters 38:14 only child: pleasing vs. loving 42:49 younger sis: growing up with brothers 44:32 younger sis: highly observant of dynamics  45:47 younger sis: comfort with conflict  48:25 younger sis: admiring your older siblings 49:00 younger sis: having boy vernacular and hobbies CONNECT WITH US Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube.  Email us at hello@thehotpursuitpod.com.  Learn more at thehotpursuitpod.com. THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl Edited by: Josh Jang  Theme song: Shawn Halim Graphic art: Kelsey Cordutsky ig: @kcord0912 Motion graphics: Matt Ebling ig: @matt_ebling Special thanks: Travis Morningstar, Melody Cheng, Helen Wu Wang, Janet Wang, Josh Jang  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

what do you wanna be when you grow up? why do our dreams fade or get lost the older we get? how can we hold onto the thread of truth from those childhood dreams & weave that into our lives today? dreaming is important to keeping your spark alive! 0:00 what did you wanna be when you grow up as a kid? 1:57 an olympian! 5:52 a trapeze artist, shamu show performer!  10:47 a news anchorwoman! 15:55 did you have a timeline for achieving your dreams? 24:17 when does the script flip? 28:28 protecting your creativity and freedom to dream 37:22 how have your dreams evolved over time? 44:16 dreams are vulnerable 54:52 dreaming about states of being vs in pictures 1:02:39 dreaming is brave CONNECT WITH US Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube.  Email us at hello@thehotpursuitpod.com.  Learn more at thehotpursuitpod.com. THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl Edited by: Josh Jang Theme song: Shawn Halim Graphic art: Kelsey Cordutsky ig: @kcord0912 Motion graphics: Matt Ebling ig: @matt_ebling Special thanks: Travis Morningstar, Melody Cheng, Helen Wu Wang, Janet Wang, Josh Jang Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The hosts dive into the emotional turmoil of friendship breakups, discussing why they can hurt more than romantic ones. They explore common reasons friendships falter—from ghosting to mismatched expectations. Personal stories reveal the complexities of hot-cold dynamics and the struggle for closure. They confront their own mistakes, reflecting on moments that caused rifts. As they debate reconnecting with lost friends, they emphasize the importance of valuing the depth of current friendships and learning from past experiences.

Conflict in friendships can reveal hidden truths and strengthen bonds. The hosts discuss how attachment styles influence fighting dynamics and the importance of viewing conflicts as signs of care. They share insights on effective communication and the art of post-fight healing, emphasizing reassurance and active listening. Personal anecdotes illustrate how misunderstandings can lead to growth, while reflections on lingering bitterness highlight the need for resolution. Practicing difficult conversations can foster deeper intimacy and trust.

The hosts dive into the gritty realities of workplace trauma, sharing stories about toxic managers and the emotional toll of navigating corporate culture. They tackle issues like sexism, ageism, and subtle racism, exploring how these experiences shape their professional lives. Discussion turns to the absurdities of managing emotional dynamics and ridiculous appearance standards in the workplace. Venting to friends emerges as a therapeutic outlet, highlighting the importance of support in recognizing and addressing each other's work struggles.

Get ready for some real talk as the hosts dive into their own red flags with humor and honesty. They explore how toxic traits, like assertive 'Karen' energy and cold withdrawal, can show up in relationships. Birth order and culture play a role in shaping these behaviors, leading to fascinating insights. With a mix of playful roasting and self-awareness, they reveal how managing these traits can transform weaknesses into strengths. Embrace your quirks and learn how vulnerability can deepen friendships!

In this engaging discussion, three hosts explore the intricate relationship people have with money. They share personal stories about how childhood and family experiences shaped their money mindsets. Topics include the desire for belonging, the impact of visible scarcity, and the creative solutions born from constraints. They reflect on early work experiences and the freedom and anxieties that came with earning their first paychecks. The conversation wraps up with the joy of generosity and how money serves as a mirror to our values and relationships.

a modern day & universal struggle: loneliness. no matter the type of life you lead - this terrible feeling is bound to come for you. how do you deal with it? 0:00 what loneliness feels like 4:10 loneliness in our fields 6:10 being an adult in a new city 8:44 loneliness unlocks vulnerability 12:39 learning to be alone as an extravert 16:07 the discipline of being alone 17:34 loneliness fuels empathy 22:25 should we try and cure loneliness?  CONNECT WITH US Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube.  Email us at hello@thehotpursuitpod.com. THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl Edited by: Sam Amezcua Theme song: Shawn Halim Graphic art: Kelsey Cordutsky ig: @kcord0912 Motion graphics: Matt Ebling ig: @matt_ebling Special thanks: Travis Morningstar, Melody Cheng, Helen Wu Wang, Janet Wang, Josh Jang Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Curious about what makes a romantic connection sizzle? The hosts dive into the physical features that first catch their eye, like jawlines and forearms. They also reveal the personality traits that make them weak in the knees, such as humor and humility. Ever been drawn to red flags? They admit to their 'mousetraps.' Flirting is likened to an intelligence test, and each host shares their unique type—a mix of ugly-hot and clean-cut nerds. They explore how standards evolve with age and how female friendships lay the groundwork for healthy love.

The hosts dive into the quest for meaningful work and share their personal career journeys. They explore whether work is essential to purpose, while challenging the pursuit of corporate ladders. Insights about the impact of good and bad managers reveal the importance of feedback in career growth. They discuss how societal norms often strip professionalism of humanity, and how work can dangerously fuel identity. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to follow their creative sparks, advocating for a balance between passion and practicality.