Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 007 - Fundamentals: SHOP: How to Repair After a Fight
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Jun 7, 2015 AI Snips
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Many Arguments Are Perpetual
- About 69% of recurring couple arguments are perpetual problems that will never fully resolve.
- The goal isn't resolution but deeper understanding and coexistence with the difference.
Punctuality Differences Example
- Dedeker shares an example where her stepdad is always early, contrasting Emily's punctuality style.
- They learn to accommodate these differences with understanding, not frustration.
Money Conflicts Reflect Values
- Money disagreements often reflect deeper values about safety versus enjoyment.
- These underlying values, not just behaviors, determine relationship compatibility around finances.