007 - Fundamentals: SHOP: How to Repair After a Fight
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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Using I Statements Is Better Than You Statements
Remember that validating it doesn't necessarily mean agreeing. And again, don't tell your partner what they did or what they didn't do. Just stay focused on your own feelings when you're telling your story. Think a fair that makes sensest stories. It's like, what was the story of what happened for me? acknowledging that they're both true, they're real for each of you, s the first step.
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