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The Impact of Non-Violent Communication

Jun 28, 2019
John and Noelle dive into the transformative power of non-violent communication. They explore the giraffe versus jackal metaphor, emphasizing empathy in expressing needs. Listeners learn actionable tips for healthy self-expression and the importance of naming specific needs like inclusion and intimacy. The duo also discusses the emotional toll of unmet needs in relationships, urging everyone to ask for what they truly desire. Prepare for a light-hearted yet insightful conversation that encourages playfulness and authenticity in daily life.
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INSIGHT

Giraffe Versus Jackal Communication

  • Nonviolent communication contrasts 'giraffe' (large-hearted) with 'jackal' (defensive) styles.
  • Emotional/verbal violence causes deep, lasting psychological harm comparable to physical violence.
INSIGHT

Universal Human Needs Drive Behavior

  • Humans share universal needs beyond survival like connection, autonomy, purpose, safety, and respect.
  • Unmet psychosocial needs drive much of emotional hurt in relationships.
ADVICE

Speak Your Needs Aloud

  • Talk explicitly about your needs and name them using Rosenberg's framework.
  • Ask the other person to meet those needs instead of assuming they'll appear.
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