On Learning, Perfectionism, and Happiness with Oliver Burkeman

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Mar 27, 2025

Oliver Burkeman, a journalist and bestselling author known for his works on time management and mindfulness, joins the discussion. They dive into the struggle against toxic perfectionism while finding joy in being 'intermediate' in our pursuits. Burkeman emphasizes the value of digital detox in a tech-saturated world, advocating for balance and the use of 'dumb phones' to reconnect with reality. They also explore the concept of creative neglect and how prioritizing tasks can empower decision-making, ultimately leading to a more meaningful life.

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INSIGHT

Weeks as a Unit of Time

Weeks are a good unit of time for planning because they are short enough to feel wasted.
But a lifetime's worth of weeks still feels small, highlighting life's brevity.

ADVICE

Systems as Tools

Use systems and advice as tools, not as solutions for total control and happiness.
Avoid approaching systems as magic bullets; they can hinder progress.

ANECDOTE

Yearly Passion Projects

Ravi Gupta describes his yearly process of tackling a passion project like writing a novel.
He explains the benefits and pitfalls, including the 'icky middle' of learning.

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