

Can therapy save their friendship?
15 snips Dec 17, 2022
Esther Perel, a renowned psychotherapist known for her insight into relationships, leads a poignant discussion on the innovative concept of 'friend therapy'. She helps two best friends navigate their drifting bond, revealing how vulnerabilities and societal pressures can strain connections. The conversation explores cultural differences in friendships, the impact of jealousy, and the necessity of open communication. Through live therapy sessions, listeners witness the transformative power of dialogue, highlighting the importance of reconnection amid life's changes.
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Loss of Narrative Control
- Bringing a third party into individual therapy changes the narrative dynamic.
- Esther Perel suggests this might explain resistance to friend therapy.
A Friendship Lost
- Kia Miakinatis reflects on a close friendship that ended due to unresolved issues.
- An objective third party could have helped maintain the friendship.
Shifting Friendship Values
- Perel suggests our culture prioritizes easy connections over deep, long-term friendships.
- Societal shifts from structured to network societies affect friendship dynamics.