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Fierce Independence As A Defensive Core
- Dismissive-avoidants fiercely protect autonomy and separateness in relationships.
- They often view others' needs as impositions that trigger withdrawal and fear.
Low Intimacy Needs And Limited Emotional Literacy
- Dismissive-avoidants have low intimacy needs and often struggle with commitment and emotional expression.
- Many lack emotional literacy because caregivers modelled avoidance or taught emotions are weak.
High Self-Esteem Masks Vulnerability
- Dismissive-avoidants often present with outwardly high self-esteem that masks internal pain or shame.
- Their defensiveness frames relationship problems as the partner's issue rather than their own.