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How to Rebuild When Everything Falls Apart with Jen Hatmaker

Nov 6, 2025
Jen Hatmaker, a New York Times bestselling author and speaker, reveals her journey of rebuilding life after her 26-year marriage ended. She discusses her memoir, *Awake*, tackling profound themes like vulnerability and the courage it takes to start over. Jen emphasizes recognizing red flags in relationships and shares insightful advice on managing grief while juggling responsibilities. With compassionate reflections on her past, she inspires listeners to embrace new beginnings and prioritize love in their lives.
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ANECDOTE

Marriage Shattered Overnight

  • Jen Hatmaker woke up at 2:30 a.m. to her husband whispering to another woman, which led to the end of her 26-year marriage.
  • She describes the immediate months as survival mode, trying to get through each day.
INSIGHT

Nonlinear Memoir Reveals Building Blocks

  • Jen wrote Awake nonlinearly in scenes and memories instead of chapters to reveal the bricks that built her life.
  • She trusted readers to connect threads and take what applies to their own story.
ADVICE

Use A Five-Year Pride Filter

  • Use the filter "Will I be proud of this in five years?" when deciding what to put into a public story.
  • Apply that question to chapters, paragraphs, and even single words to protect integrity.
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