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Stop Waiting to Feel Ready: How Doug Bopst Proved Change Starts Small

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Oct 30, 2025
Doug Bopst, a formerly incarcerated transformation coach and award-winning author, shares his inspiring journey from addiction to empowerment. His story reveals how hitting rock bottom led to small steps of change that accumulated over time. Discussing the significance of discipline and environment, Doug emphasizes that real transformation starts with action, not confidence. He also advises on setting healthy boundaries in relationships and harnessing the power of small wins to build self-worth and confidence.
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ANECDOTE

From Jail Cell To First Pushup

  • Doug describes hitting rock bottom as a 21-year-old felon and opiate addict who couldn't do a pushup.
  • A cellmate challenged him to stop playing victim and start exercising, which began his transformation.
INSIGHT

Confidence Grows From Small Wins

  • Small wins compound into lasting self-confidence the way compound interest grows wealth.
  • Doug says proving yourself with achievable actions matters more than mere affirmations.
ANECDOTE

A Judge's Mercy And A Second Chance

  • The judge suspended most of Doug's five-year sentence and offered probation before judgment if he complied.
  • That second chance, plus his cellmate's help, became the practical pathway out of his old life.
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