#80 - Sleep Advice for Couples with Dr. Wendy Troxel

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Aug 26, 2024

Dr. Wendy Troxel, a clinical psychologist and sleep expert, returns to share her insights on the intersection of sleep and relationships. She highlights how open communication can help couples navigate sleep disruptions while offering creative strategies, like using the term "slangry" to manage sleep-deprived moods. Dr. Troxel debunks myths such as the idea that sleeping apart indicates a troubled relationship and emphasizes understanding sleep preferences to enhance harmony. Ultimately, prioritizing sleep can lead to stronger, more connected partnerships.

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Mitigating Sleep Disruption Effects

Anticipate sleep challenges and plan with your partner to share responsibilities.
Label sleep-deprived behaviors (like "slangry") to manage them without judgment.

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Navigating Sleep Deprivation as a Couple

Postpone difficult conversations until you're both well-rested.
If visiting new parents, offer practical help like childcare to allow them to nap.

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Maintaining Positivity During Sleep Disruption

Even when sleep-deprived, share positive experiences, like discussing your day or doing something fun together.
This helps balance the negative effects of sleep deprivation on your relationship.

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Dr. Wendy Troxel returns to the podcast today to discuss the significant impact of sleep on relationships and mental health with Matt. Offering actionable strategies for couples facing inevitable sleep disruptions, Dr. Troxel emphasizes the importance of communication, suggesting that couples anticipate sleep challenges, share responsibilities, and use tools like the "slangry" label to recognize and manage sleep-deprived behaviors. She also highlights the importance of timing conversations and creating positive shared experiences, even when sleep-deprived, to maintain relationship quality.

Dr. Troxel further debunks common myths about sleep and relationships, including the misconception that sleeping apart signifies a troubled relationship or that snoring is merely a nuisance. She stresses the need for couples to understand and respect their chronotypes—whether they are early birds or night owls—and to find harmonious solutions that accommodate their different sleep patterns. By prioritizing sleep and maintaining open communication, couples can enhance their relationship, reduce conflict, and improve overall well-being - sleep is not just a personal health issue but a critical factor in sustaining healthy, connected relationships.

Please note that Matt is not a medical doctor, and none of the content in this podcast should be considered medical advice in any way, shape, or form, nor prescriptive in any way.

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