Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 132 - The Ethical Slut 20th Anniversary with Janet Hardy
Aug 15, 2017
Join Janet Hardy, a renowned author and sex educator, as she celebrates the 20th anniversary of her influential book, "The Ethical Slut." She discusses the book’s lasting impact on polyamory and how it has shaped discussions around non-monogamous relationships. Janet shares exciting updates in the new edition, highlights the evolving acceptance of alternative partnerships, and offers invaluable advice for those exploring polyamory. Dive into a conversation that redefines relationship labels and reflects on the future of love and connection.
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Shame Triggers Hostility
- People are more enraged by others' lack of shame in non-monogamy than by the act itself.
- This lack of shame challenges societal norms and triggers defensive reactions.
The Ethical Slut's Impact
- The Ethical Slut was pivotal in making polyamory accessible and real for many.
- It showed that non-monogamous relationships weren't just theory but practiced ethically by others.
Critique of Polyamory Labels
- The poly community has become fragmented by labels, which Janet finds unnecessary.
- She advocates choosing relationships based on desires rather than strict categories.
