Psychologist Dr. John Delony joins The Minimalists to discuss finding peace in difficult times. Topics include being at peace with oneself, regaining child custody, the purpose of The Minimalists' social media presence, whether peace is our natural state, and building a non-anxious life through love and questioning desires.
Peace is about being grounded in the present moment, regardless of circumstances.
Having a support network is crucial in finding strength and resilience during challenging times.
Deep dives
Finding Peace in the Present Moment
Dr. John Deloney discusses the concept of peace and how it is not about the absence of conflict but rather about being anchored in the present moment, regardless of the circumstances. He emphasizes that peace is not found in isolation but through connection and support from others.
Navigating Difficult Times with Community Support
Dr. Deloney highlights the importance of having a support network in challenging times. He encourages listeners to reach out to trusted individuals, such as friends, family, or counselors, and seek guidance and companionship. By leaning on others, one can find strength and resilience to navigate hardships.
Choosing Reality and Taking Action
Acknowledging the reality of a difficult situation is a crucial step towards finding peace. Dr. Deloney advises individuals to choose reality and take action to make positive changes in their lives. This may involve making tough decisions, seeking professional help, or creating a plan to address the challenges at hand.
Reframing Excitement and Embracing Peace
The hosts address the idea that constant excitement and high energy may be perceived as more desirable than a state of peace. They suggest that genuine peace is rooted in being present and finding contentment within, rather than constantly seeking external stimulation. They highlight the importance of finding balance and mindfulness in order to cultivate true peace.
The Minimalists speak with psychologist Dr. John Delony about finding peace in difficult times. Watch all 2 hours of episode 412 on The Minimalists Private Podcast.
Discussed in this episode:
How can I learn to be at peace with myself? (02:27)
How can I get back custody of my children? (12:29)
Why do The Minimalists post to social media? (22:50)