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394 Radical Listening: The Superpower Hiding in Plain Sight with Dr. Christian van Nieuwerburgh & Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener

Apr 7, 2025
Dr. Christian van Nieuwerburgh, an executive coach and academic, teams up with Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener, a renowned psychologist, to delve into the often-overlooked skill of radical listening. They discuss the disconnect caused by modern distractions and the emotional barriers to effective communication. Their insights reveal how practicing curiosity and empathy can foster deeper connections in both personal and professional spheres. They even touch on bridging ideological divides, advocating for open dialogue and intellectual humility to enhance understanding.
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INSIGHT

Listening Is Often Self-Centered

  • Most people listen to respond, not to understand, which blocks genuine communication.
  • Western individualism encourages conversations as competitions for airtime rather than connection.
ADVICE

Cultivate Curiosity for Better Listening

  • Approach conversations with curiosity to be more open and present.
  • Radical listening means making the other person feel seen, valued, and heard.
ADVICE

Set Intentions Before Listening

  • Listening is motivated by your intention and goals in the conversation.
  • Clarify your purpose to focus attention and listen more effectively.
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