Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?
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Jun 3, 2025 Dive into a thought-provoking discussion about attachment theory and its criticisms. The hosts explore how this theory influences modern relationships, especially non-monogamous ones. They share personal experiences with different attachment styles and stress the importance of context in navigating relationship anxiety. Discover how parenting and interpersonal connections shape our attachment patterns. The conversation also highlights the potential for healing through relationships, encouraging a deeper understanding of ourselves and our connections with others.
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Attachment Style Multitudes
- Emily realized she exhibited both dismissive and anxious attachment behaviors in her last relationship.
- Dedeker experienced heightened anxious attachment during the pandemic, different from her usual pattern.
Attachment Styles Vary By Context
- Attachment style varies with relationship type and context rather than being fixed.
- Attachment tests can oversimplify complex feelings influenced by environment and stress.
Attachment Influences Go Beyond Parents
- Critics argue peers and broader environment impact development more than primary caregivers.
- Parenting is complex; biological factors and environment both influence attachment more than originally thought.
