#181: Dr. K – The Harvard Psychiatrist helping creators with performance, burnout, and dealing with negative feedback.
Feb 13, 2024
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Dr. K, a Harvard psychiatrist, joins the podcast to discuss improving relationships with feedback, dealing with burnout, and the negative effects of focusing on performance. They explore the impact of burnout on content quality and emotional well-being, the importance of emotional engagement in creating successful content, and the misconception that focusing solely on performance yields better results.
Content creators should set aside dedicated time to analyze feedback in a calm state of mind to maintain emotional well-being.
Content creators experience higher levels of mental health issues due to not fitting into societal norms and the ongoing demands of content creation.
To combat burnout, content creators should focus on intentional practices and detach from outcome-focused expectations.
Deep dives
Improving Your Relationship with Feedback
Receiving feedback in a systematic and intentional way is crucial for content creators to alter how much it affects them. Rather than constantly checking comments and feedback throughout the day, creators should set aside dedicated time to analyze feedback, both positive and negative, in a calm and confident state of mind. By being selective about when and how feedback is received, content creators can maintain emotional well-being and develop a more balanced perspective towards feedback.
Prevalence of Mental Health Issues Among Content Creators
Content creators experience higher levels of mental health issues like burnout, anxiety, and depression compared to the general population. This can be attributed to the fact that many content creators do not fit into traditional societal norms and may feel like misfits. Additionally, the constant demands and ongoing nature of content creation can create a never-ending cycle of work, leading to burnout and anxiety. The impact of public comments and the brain's tendency to focus on negative feedback further compounds the psychological and physiological stress experienced by content creators.
Managing Burnout and Expectations as a Content Creator
Content creators often experience burnout due to the gap between their efforts and expected outcomes, which is exacerbated by the pressure to constantly produce content and maintain momentum. To combat burnout, creators should focus on offloading daily stress through intentional practices rather than relying solely on breaks. Taking breaks alone may not be sufficient to alleviate burnout because content creators feel unsettled by the never-ending nature of their work. By reframing their mindset and understanding that expectation can lead to suffering, content creators can improve their mental health and performance by embracing a more intentional and less outcome-focused approach to content creation.
Detaching from Performance and Focusing on Actions
One of the main ideas discussed in the podcast is the importance of detaching from the performance of one's work and focusing on one's actions. The speaker suggests that attributing success to luck and failures to oneself is not a healthy mindset and can lead to burnout. Instead, they propose giving oneself the same relationship to wins and losses, recognizing that results cannot always be controlled. Over time, the goal is to detach from taking credit for wins or losses and to focus solely on the actions one takes. By removing ego and expectations, and increasing gratitude, confidence can be cultivated naturally without putting pressure on oneself to constantly perform.
The Distinction between Ego and Confidence
Another key point discussed in the podcast is the distinction between ego and confidence. The speaker explains that ego and confidence are at opposite ends of the spectrum. While confidence comes from within and is beneficial for content creation, ego is externally driven and can hinder growth. They emphasize that a creator's self-worth should not be tied to the performance of their content, but rather to the act of creating with the intention of helping others. The speaker suggests that instead of seeking guaranteed success or ensuring specific outcomes, content creators should focus on the present moment and do their best without attaching expectations. By analyzing performance and using it as a compass for improvement, creators can learn from their work without letting it define their self-worth.
Dr. K is a Harvard psychiatrist behind the YouTube channel HealthyGamerGG, where he makes videos to help you improve your mental health and your content.
Over the past couple of years, Dr. K has gained over 2 million subscribers and done around 315,000,000 views.