Modern Wisdom

#599 - Adam Lane Smith - 15 Harsh Psychology Truths

Mar 9, 2023

Adam Lane Smith, a psychotherapist and author focused on attachment theory, shares captivating insights from his therapeutic practice. He discusses the striking communication differences between men and women and the alarming rise of depression medications among young girls. Adam explores why female sexual drive fluctuates in relationships and common dating pitfalls men should avoid. He also emphasizes the importance of emotional intimacy in enhancing relationships and critiques modern dating dynamics shaped by technology.

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Men Need Solutions Not Just Feelings

03:27

How Does the Female Sex Drive Work?

02:24

Why couples often seek therapy only as last resort

01:14

The Sex Drive of Women with Attachment Issues

01:20

Intro

5min

Navigating Couples Therapy: Insights and Challenges

9min

Education, ADHD, and Gender Dynamics

12min

Empowering Men Through Therapy

6min

Navigating Modern Masculinity

17min

Understanding Sexual Dynamics and Emotional Intimacy

9min

Understanding Attachment and Communication Dynamics

12min

Navigating Attachment and Intimacy in Women's Relationships

7min

Confronting the Illusions of Comfort

2min

10.

Navigating Modern Dating Dynamics

13min

11.

Connecting Through Authentic Storytelling and Commitment

4min

Adam Lane Smith is a psychotherapist and an author.

Adam has helped thousands of patients and couples to deal with problems from childhood, their relationships and their sex lives. He also writes amazing Twitter threads filled with insights from his time as a therapist and today we get to go through some of my favourites.

Expect to learn the common trend Adam saw in every couples' therapy session he conducted, the biggest differences between male and female communication styles, why so many young girls are on depression medication, why the female sex drive switches after 6 to 12 months into a relationship, what mistakes all women wish guys would stop making on the first 3 dates and much more...

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