Overcoming Self-Sabotage and Alcohol Dependency: The Story of a Resilient Athlete, Benjamin Owen
Sep 18, 2023
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Former elite athlete Benjamin Owen shares his struggles with self-sabotage and alcohol addiction, discussing his journey to overcoming these challenges and the transformational power of his holistic coaching approach. The podcast explores the concept of 'Part X' and the impact of past feelings on present emotions, while also emphasizing the importance of cultivating energy and happiness. It's an exploration of self-awareness, self-improvement, and self-empowerment you won't want to miss.
Recognizing and consciously choosing to overcome powerful impulses is key to overcoming self-sabotaging behaviors.
Reframing the victim narrative and taking ownership of one's life cultivates personal empowerment and the ability to make positive changes.
Learning to see setbacks as temporary setbacks, rather than total defeats, helps individuals bounce back quicker and continue their journey of growth.
Deep dives
Identifying and battling your inner enemy
One of the ways that the inner enemy, or 'part X', works is through powerful impulses that lead to self-sabotaging behaviors such as drinking, overeating, or scrolling aimlessly. Recognizing these impulses and consciously making a different choice is key to overcoming them.
Shifting from a victim narrative to personal empowerment
The inner enemy thrives on a victim narrative, creating a sense of helplessness and blaming external circumstances for one's problems. By reframing the narrative and taking ownership of one's life, individuals can cultivate personal empowerment and the ability to make positive changes.
Recognizing knockbacks as temporary setbacks
The inner enemy often tries to amplify setbacks and make individuals believe they are complete failures. Learning to see knockbacks as temporary setbacks, rather than total defeats, can help individuals bounce back quicker and continue their journey of growth.
Breaking free from external validation and finding internal energy
The inner enemy often leads individuals to seek external sources for validation and energy. Learning to cultivate internal sources of happiness and energy, and recognizing that these already exist within oneself, can help individuals break free from reliance on external substances or behaviors.
Releasing toxic emotions and reframing negative narratives
The inner enemy can perpetuate negative emotions and narratives that hold individuals back. By acknowledging and releasing these toxic emotions, and reframing negative narratives into more positive and empowering ones, individuals can overcome self-sabotaging patterns and move forward with a clearer mindset.
Continuing the daily battle and embracing the growth journey
Overcoming the inner enemy is a daily battle, but it is a sign of growth and progress. Embracing the ongoing journey and recognizing that the stronger one becomes, the stronger the inner enemy tries to resist can empower individuals to keep fighting and moving forward in their personal growth.
We've all been there - trying to improve ourselves, make positive changes, and then seemingly out of nowhere, we sabotage our own efforts. It's a common battle and one that seasoned sports coach and former elite athlete, Benjamin Owen, knows all too well. Join us for a candid conversation with Ben shares his personal struggles with self-sabotage, his journey to overcoming alcohol addiction, and the transformational power of his holistic approach to coaching.
From representing Wales and Great Britain to working with Chelsea Football Club and Inspire Sports, Ben's stories will keep you glued to your seat. But it's not just about athletics - it's about the physiology, psychology, emotional, and spiritual aspects that go beyond the playing field. Listen as we discuss his transition into coaching everyday people, transforming their bodies and lives, and the unique challenges and triumphs he encounters in the trenches.
However, it's when we navigate the complexities of alcohol addiction and self-sabotage that the conversation takes a deeper, personal turn. Hear Ben's forthright account of his own fight with alcohol, how the 30-day no beer challenge helped him regain control, and the revolutionary changes in his social dynamics. We then venture into the concept of 'Part X' - an internal force that keeps us safe but stagnant - and how to recognise it and wrestle it into submission. It's an exploration of self-awareness, self-improvement, and self-empowerment you won't want to miss. Tune in for an episode that's as enlightening as it is inspiring.