A User's Guide to Mental Health, part four - Permission to Feel what you're Feeling
Apr 1, 2024
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Explore the acceptance of a range of emotions and the importance of feeling happy even in tough times. Delve into reshaping thought patterns and recognizing innocence in negative thoughts for mental well-being.
It's important to allow yourself to feel unhappy without assuming there's something wrong with you.
Embrace happiness regardless of external circumstances, as innate mental health does not depend on external factors.
Deep dives
Accepting Unhappiness as Part of Mental Health
An important revelation in the speaker's mental health journey was learning that it's okay to feel unhappy. Attending a course that emphasized this idea was transformative as it challenged the notion that feeling unhappy meant there was something fundamentally wrong. This realization allowed the speaker to understand that unhappiness was just a passing state of mind, not a permanent condition. By accepting and allowing unhappy feelings without trying to constantly mitigate them, the speaker gained mental clarity and freed themselves from the burden of constantly trying to prevent unhappiness.
Embracing Happiness Regardless of Circumstances
Another key insight from the podcast is the importance of embracing happiness irrespective of external circumstances. The speaker highlights the misconception that being happy when the world is imperfect or when others around us are not happy indicates a problem. However, the speaker argues that it is natural to experience happiness and that innate mental health does not depend on external factors. By recognizing that true mental health comes from within and is not reliant on external validation, individuals can cultivate a sense of well-being and contentment regardless of external conditions.
In part four of this five part series, you'll discover why it's OK to feel bad when you feel bad and it's equally OK to feel happy no matter what's going on in your life or in the world.
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