Sexual Penetration Techniques - with Naema Pierce (My Partner)
Feb 27, 2024
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Learn juicy sexual penetration techniques from a pelvic specialist. Discover the importance of gradual warm-up and clear communication. Explore mindful penis penetration techniques and enhancing connection during sex. Delve into releasing trauma through body connection and upcoming workshops for women.
Building trust through communication and consent before penetration is crucial for a safe and pleasurable experience.
Utilizing gentle and gradual penetration techniques, focusing on consent and mutual pleasure, can enhance intimacy and connection.
Slowing down, exploring different movements, and focusing on attuning to each other's pleasure can lead to a more profound and satisfying sexual experience.
Deep dives
Building Trust through Communication and Attunement
Before engaging in sexual activities, building trust through clear communication and attunement is crucial. Establishing consent and permission, especially before penetration, can create a safe and pleasurable experience. Taking the time to warm up the body, particularly focusing on the inner thighs, pelvis, and vulva, helps to prepare both partners physically and emotionally. Offering pressure and gentle stimulation at the vaginal entrance facilitates relaxation and arousal, enhancing the overall intimacy.
Exploring Sensual Techniques for Penetration
During penetration, utilizing techniques such as holding pressure at the vaginal entrance and pulsating gently can enhance the sensory experience. By seeking permission and remaining present with the partner, the gradual entry process allows for a deeper connection and stimulation of nerve endings around the vaginal canal. Engaging in broad strokes and circular motions around the vulva and clitoral area can activate the intricate internal structure of the clitoris, contributing to heightened pleasure and intimacy.
Enhancing the Penetrative Experience
Optimizing the penetrative experience involves embracing a gentle and gradual approach, focusing on consent, lube, and attunement to the partner's responses. Avoiding rushed penetration and allowing pauses for breathing and adjustment can lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual encounter. By valuing communication, consent, and mutual pleasure, partners can cultivate a deeper connection and create a space for exploration, trust, and intimate connection.
Enhancing Pleasure Through Slow and Mindful Penetration
Taking time to breathe into moments of discomfort during penetration can enhance pleasure for both partners. By paying attention to cues like breathing and body tension, partners can deepen their connection and experience more satisfying sexual encounters. The technique of applying mindful pressure to areas of discomfort can help release tension and create a more expansive pleasure experience.
The Importance of Slowing Down and Tuning into Sensations
Slowing down during penetrative sex and exploring different movements beyond traditional in-and-out motions can lead to a more profound experience. Consistent and slow pressure, especially on areas like the cervix, can enhance pleasure and create a deeper connection between partners. By allowing sensations to build gradually and focusing on attuning to each other's pleasure, a more enriching and expansive pleasure can be achieved.
My partner Naema and I recorded this episode to teach you how to SKILLFULLY penetrate a woman in a truly pleasure-filled & connective way - informed by Naema's profession as a pelvic bodyworker & sex coach for Women, and from our own personal sexual practices too.
In this episode you'll learn juicy & HIGHLY pleasurable sexual penetration techniques, you'll learn important female sexual anatomy (with visual diagrams in the video episode on Youtube), AND you'll learn how to avoid common penetration mistakes men make that can ruin sex for everyone involved.
*NOTE: I've made these sex mistakes too. Please remember that I'm human just like you, and I've come a loooong way on my journey to get to where I am now. Ideally you can learn from my mistakes so you can have better sex today - without having to stumble as much as I did when I was younger.
ABOUT NAEMA Naema is a pelvic specialist for women, who combines powerful hands-on work with transformational ritual & coaching experiences too - proving a truly full-body, mind & spirit approach to healing sexual blocks and unlocking orgasmic, pain-free & fully confident sexual aliveness in the women she works with.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS: 00:00 - Intro 01:45 - Opening 06:15 - Theme’s Naema has learned about penetration working with women 08:15 - How rushing sex hurts women (and you too) 15:45 - What makes a bad penetrative sex experience 19:20 - What to do before sex 23:15 - Technique to help her open 24:30 - At what point should her pussy be touched? 26:25 - How to warm up a vulva/should you touch her clit? 32:05 - Diagram of Clitoris 34:00 - Waiting for the ask 36:40 - How to help your partner not feel rushed in penetration 40:20 - *IMPORTANT* Technique for helping women to move through pain 45:00 - How to help your woman heal her sexual trauma 47:00 - 2 things that guys should do differently during sex 50:00 - Playing with different types of pleasure with your partner 54:35 - Cervical orgasms and what the cervix likes 56:30 - How to stop penetration in a good way 1:01:30 - Outro
