#520 - Robin Dunbar - The Evolutionary Psychology Of Love
Sep 1, 2022
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Robin Dunbar, an anthropologist and evolutionary psychologist from Oxford, dives deep into the essence of love and its evolutionary roots. He discusses why love is integral to our survival, revealing that humans may need more sex than other animals to reproduce. Intriguingly, he explains how finger length can indicate promiscuity and explores the differences in mating practices across cultures. Dunbar also tackles the complexities of love in arranged marriages and highlights the role of female coalitions in parenting, redefining traditional views on relationships.
Love is an adaptive emotion crucial for forming bonds and ensuring protection in social groups.
Finger length ratios correlate with promiscuity, revealing insights into behavioral tendencies influenced by fetal testosterone levels.
Polygamous societies exhibit varied male-female dynamics with females forming coalitions for mutual support and defense.
Deep dives
Evolution of Love and Pair Bonding
The podcast delves into the adaptive nature of love, discussing how human emotions like love have evolved over time. It explores the concept of pair bonding and the reasons behind the intense feeling of love, suggesting that females have historically played a crucial role in mate choice and forming bonds to ensure protection in social groups.
Influence of Finger Length on Promiscuity Indicators
The episode highlights an intriguing correlation between finger length ratios and promiscuity in humans and other primates. Shorter index fingers, influenced by fetal testosterone levels, are linked to higher promiscuity, providing a unique insight into how physical traits can reflect behavioral tendencies.
Social Strategies in Polygamous Societies
The discussion extends to polygamous societies and the dynamics of male-female relationships within such systems. It explains how females in polygamous societies form coalitions for mutual support and defense, shedding light on the varied strategies employed in different social structures.
Resource Allocation and Evolutionary Strategies
The podcast examines how resource allocation and evolutionary pressures shape social behaviors. It explores historical examples, such as the strategies employed by different cultures to manage surplus males and distribution of resources to address challenges in mate selection and societal stability.
Sibling Relationships and Social Dynamics in Historical Contexts
In historical contexts where families with excess sons would persuade some to join the church for career stability, dynamics such as marrying off only one daughter led to surplus daughters who often became servants, leading challenging lives. Portuguese traditions restricted daughters to marrying within the upper class, resulting in surplus girls sent to convents as 'Brides of Christ' with dowries to offer. The constraints on marriage choices created challenges for surplus daughters, impacting their social and economic status.
Evolutionary Insights into Courtship Behavior and Physical Intimacy
Human courtship behavior, including kissing and physical intimacy, is linked to the exchange of immune system information. Kissing, considered nearly universal, allows the transmission of immune system factors and bacteria, aiding in assessing a potential partner's genetic compatibility. The courtship process involves visual attraction, conversation, physical interaction, and assessing immune system compatibility through scents and pheromones. The search for genetic diversity in immune systems suggests an evolutionary drive for optimal breeding outcomes, emphasizing the importance of physical cues in mate selection.
Robin Dunbar is an anthropologist, evolutionary psychologist, head of the Social and Evolutionary Neuroscience Research Group at the University of Oxford and an author.
Love is something that people have been trying to describe for thousands of years. Beyond asking what love is, is the question of why humans feel something so strange in the first place. Why would evolution have exposed us to this extreme sensation with huge potential for catastrophe and pain?
Expect to learn how love is adaptive, why humans need to have more sex than almost all other animals to get pregnant, why ancestral men who hunted big animals were only doing it to get laid, how the length of your fingers can tell you how promiscuous you are, whether Robin thinks humans were ancestrally monogamous and much more...