Lama Rod Owens, a Black, queer author and Buddhist teacher, dives into the complex landscape of race and privilege. He emphasizes the importance of confronting discomfort in conversations about systemic racism. With heartfelt insights, he shares personal experiences of racial pain and the emotional toll of these challenges. The discussion advocates for empathy, vulnerability, and genuine connection as essential tools for meaningful dialogue. Throughout, Owens highlights the intricate relationship between love and anger in pursuit of understanding and liberation.
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Dialogue over Interview
Lama Rod Owens prefers dialogues over interviews when discussing race.
He believes this format fosters better conversations around challenging topics.
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Discomfort and Fear
Discomfort arises from justifying feelings of victimhood due to racism.
White people may fear saying the wrong thing and being humiliated.
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Silence on Race
Dan Harris shares an anecdote about a Black friend whose posts on race are met with silence.
He explains this silence comes from a fear of saying something wrong.
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Many of us come to meditation for comfort. But, especially for white people, right now is a time to embrace our discomfort. Lama Rod Owens encourages me to step way out of my comfort zone in this conversation, and I am grateful to him for it. Owens is the author of the soon-to-be-released book, Love and Rage. As it says in the bio on his website, his story sits at the "cross sections" of so many aspects of American life "as a Black, queer male, born and raised in the South." He was officially recognized by the Kagyu school of Tibetan Buddhism after he completed a three-year silent retreat, during which time he says he dealt with years of past pain and trauma. As you will hear him say in this interview, he "worked his butt off to feel ok." After retreat, he completed a Master of Divinity at Harvard. I hope you get as much out of this conversation as I did. Where to find Lama Rod Owens online: Website: https://www.lamarod.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lamarod1 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lamarod/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lamarodowens/?hl=en Books: Love and Rage - The Path to Liberation Through Anger / https://bookshop.org/books/love-and-rage-the-path-of-liberation-through-anger-9781623174095/9781623174095 Radical Dharma - Talking Race, Love and Liberation / https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Dharma-Talking-Race-Liberation/dp/1623170982 Ten Percent Happier Challenge Update We've decided to postpone the Pandemic Resilience Challenge while we recalibrate it to better meet the needs of this moment. We want to make sure we're supporting you in coping with our current social crisis as well as the pandemic. We're not cancelling the challenge, just postponing - if you signed up for updates, you'll continue to receive information. Thank you for your patience and for giving us the time to get this right. You can find updates on the challenge at tenpercent.com/challenge Other Resources Mentioned: Narrative 4 Additional Resources: Ten Percent Happier Live: https://tenpercent.com/live Coronavirus Sanity Guide: https://www.tenpercent.com/coronavirussanityguide Free App access for Health Care Workers: https://tenpercent.com/care Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/lama-rod-owens-253
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