Dive into the messy magic of self-discovery and the importance of being your authentic self. Explore how emotional regulation can unlock growth during life's challenges. Learn why choosing relationships that reciprocate your energy is vital, and how chasing the unavailable leads to heartache. Discover the role your body plays as a spiritual guide, encouraging you to embrace all aspects of yourself, including your shadow. This journey can deepen connections and align your life with love and purpose.
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Be Authentic Over Pleasing
It's better to be disliked for being authentic than loved for wearing a mask.
Avoiding conflict for external peace causes internal turmoil and health issues like autoimmunity.
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Stop Chasing The Unavailable
Chasing unavailable people drains your energy and blocks you from those truly available.
Pursuing unavailable relationships usually means you are unavailable yourself and vibrationally matched to unavailability.
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Set Relationship Standards
Set the standard that people must desire the same connection as you to be in your life.
Let go of relationships where the other party is unwilling to meet you halfway.
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In this solo episode, I dive into the messy magic of self-discovery and what it really means to show up as your full, authentic self—even if that means not everyone likes you. We talk nervous systems, emotional regulation, and why those “activated” moments are actually gold for growth. I break down the power of choosing relationships that choose you back and why chasing the unavailable just isn’t it. You’ll hear why your body might be your biggest spiritual guide, and how embracing all of you—yes, even the shadowy bits—can lead to deeper connection, bigger love, and a life that feels wildly aligned.
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