The Dr. John Delony Show Harvard Professor: The Real Reason Marriages Fall Apart (With Dr. Arthur Brooks)
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Sep 20, 2024 
Dr. Arthur Brooks, a Harvard professor specializing in the brain chemistry of love and happiness, joins the discussion on why relationships falter. They dive into the impact of dating apps and the importance of understanding emotional nuances in love. Brooks emphasizes that real connection transcends technology, urging listeners to reclaim curiosity and embrace therapy for personal growth. The conversation highlights the power of choice in relationships and how intentional efforts can lead to deeper emotional resilience and fulfillment.
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Building Enduring Love
- Lasting love is built, not found.
- Focus on building a strong foundation, not chasing initial feelings.
The Neurochemistry of Love
- Romantic love involves a neurochemical cascade, starting with attraction (testosterone/estrogen).
- It progresses to euphoria (dopamine/norepinephrine), rumination (low serotonin), and finally, bonding (oxytocin).
Prioritize Friendship
- Build romantic relationships on friendship, not just passion.
- Enduring love thrives on deep connection and companionship.