Tom Ellis - Fatherhood, Surrogacy and Years of Therapy

Sep 3, 2025

Tom Ellis, known for his charming roles in 'Lucifer' and 'Miranda', delves into his journey as a father of four, recently welcoming a daughter via surrogacy. He shares insights on modern fatherhood and the emotional complexities of family dynamics, including step-parenting. Tom reflects on personal growth through years of therapy, his journey from aspiring athlete to actor, and his unique experiences growing up as a preacher's kid. The conversation also touches on navigating creative partnerships with his wife in the entertainment industry.

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INSIGHT

Spirituality Shapes Decision-Making

Tom Ellis retains a sense of spirituality while moving away from organized religion.
He uses that belief to recognize when to change course and avoid conflict-avoidant patterns.

ADVICE

Acknowledge And Change Course

Acknowledge when you're in the wrong place and change course to return to where you belong.
Facing uncomfortable truths can lead to steadier personal alignment.

ANECDOTE

Star-Studded Set, Surreal Moments

Tom felt intimidated on set with Helen Mirren, Ben Kingsley and Pierce Brosnan but experienced role-reversal when they fawned over his character.
He later recalled a surreal moment when Steven Spielberg visited the set unannounced.

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