Why Everything Is Happening FOR You (Not To You)

Nov 20, 2025

Explore the transformative power of reframing trauma as something that serves you, not against you. Discover how past experiences of rejection, isolation, and public judgment can become your greatest assets. Learn the importance of breaking away from limiting circles to find your true identity and pursue big dreams. Lori emphasizes viewing problems as feedback and encourages bold action as a remedy for overthinking. She illustrates resilience with gym metaphors, urging listeners to embrace resistance as essential for growth.

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INSIGHT

Reframe Trauma As Growth

Trauma can be reframed as a belief that something happened to you rather than for you.
Asking "How could this be guiding me?" turns pain into power and growth.

ANECDOTE

Growing Up Isolated Shaped Resilience

Lori describes growing up Jehovah's Witness and being isolated at school for holidays and birthdays.
That childhood exclusion taught her resilience and empathy she uses today.

ADVICE

Upgrade Your Circle To Scale

Change rooms when you outgrow your circle and seek peers who push your scale.
Avoid spaces where you're the most successful person; proximity to bigger thinkers accelerates growth.

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I had a moment on a recent podcast interview that hit me straight in the soul. In this episode, I’m talking about the identity-shifting moments of my life, growing up isolated in a religion, getting bullied, facing constant rejection door-to-door, and later the public judgment that came with building a business. These are the exact moments I used to resent, and they’re now the ones I’m most grateful for. I’m breaking down how resistance, shame, judgment, and even the stuff you never tell anyone ends up becoming the exact training that equips you for your calling. Get ready to shift into the identity of a woman who knows everything is happening for her next level.

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HIGHLIGHTS

The quote that completely reframed my understanding of trauma.
How childhood isolation, judgment, and rejection built the resilience I rely on today.
Why resistance, trolls, and misunderstandings are signs you're breaking patterns.
Where you're unintentionally giving your power away in business and life.
The “resistance training” mindset that changes how you approach every challenge.

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