The podcast delves into the dark side of ambition, discussing burnout, broken relationships, and ignorance. Amanda Goetz shares her journey from a farm to entrepreneurship and parenting. Topics include embracing failure, ambition's influence on parenting, therapy modalities, and encouraging individual passions.
Understanding the motivations behind ambition impacts priorities and relationships.
Exploring subconscious drivers empowers conscious choices and aligns actions with true desires.
Establishing non-negotiable routines and self-care practices fosters balance, stability, and fulfillment.
Deep dives
Impact of Ambition on Parenting
Having lived an ambitious life filled with various career endeavors, the speaker reflects on whether ambition impacts parenting and personal growth. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the motivations behind one's ambition and how it influences priorities, boundaries, and self-perception. Drawing from personal experiences, she navigates the delicate balance of ambition and parenthood, highlighting the need to assess the underlying drivers driving ambition and its effects on relationships.
Navigating Inner Work and Shadow Aspects
Exploring the concept of shadow work, the speaker delves into the subconscious drivers that influence decision-making and behavior. By understanding the origins of one's ambitions and addressing past programming, individuals can empower themselves to make conscious choices and align their actions with their true desires. Through therapy and self-reflection, she stresses the significance of setting boundaries, identifying keystone habits, and navigating the complexities of personal growth.
Setting Non-Negotiables and Prioritizing Self-Care
The speaker underscores the importance of establishing non-negotiable routines and self-care practices to maintain balance and well-being. By prioritizing activities such as daily movement, structured work hours, and focused creative time, individuals can cultivate a sense of stability and fulfillment. These non-negotiables serve as anchors for the day, fostering mental clarity, emotional resilience, and sustained productivity.
Parenting Philosophies and Childhood Influences
Reflecting on parenting philosophies and childhood influences, the speaker envisions her children's growth into content, self-aware individuals who embrace curiosity and self-discovery. She aims to instill values of intrinsic motivation, personal growth, and self-acceptance in her children, allowing them to pursue paths that align with their unique aspirations and passions. Through nurturing individual talents and honoring personal development, she envisions her children embodying resilience, authenticity, and fulfillment in adulthood.
Balancing External Expectations and Internal Fulfillment
Navigating the tension between societal expectations and personal fulfillment, the speaker acknowledges the complexities of career trajectories, success, and societal norms. While valuing the benefits of traditional paths to success, such as education and prestigious roles, she recognizes the importance of individual fulfillment and happiness. Embracing her children's diverse aspirations and talents, she prioritizes self-awareness, autonomy, and personal growth, encouraging them to pursue paths that align with their innermost desires and values.
Ambition is a good thing, right? It’s your ambition that creates opportunity. It grows your income. It makes you visible and relevant. But is it also insatiable? We explore the dark side of ambition: burnout, broken relationships and ignorance. [Episode 38]
Amanda is a serial founder, brand builder, creator and single mother of three.