

13 - The Need for Support (Surviving vs. Thriving)
8 snips Apr 2, 2024
Discover the importance of a strong support system to overcome fears and insecurities, much like the camaraderie in 'Cheers.' Dive into how emotional support fosters personal growth beyond mere survival. The metaphor of a life bucket emphasizes balance in giving and receiving in relationships. Explore the need for vulnerability in forging deeper connections and the complexities of parent-child dynamics. The discussion on addiction reveals its role as a misguided coping mechanism, urging a shift towards true thriving through genuine relationships.
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Definition of Support
- Support means continual responding to our ongoing needs with confidence in others' response.
- It is met by being able to call upon others and God for replenishment in all conditions.
Thriving Requires Daily Support
- Healthy individuals live truthfully, pouring out their life daily and needing to be refilled.
- This creates a cycle requiring security to receive necessary replenishment to keep thriving.
Be Humble and Vulnerable Constantly
- Make humility, neediness, and vulnerability the gate to your circle of security.
- Bring your whole heart to relationships to ask for affirmation and confirmation daily.