Desirable A Psychologist's Take on Delusional Female Entitlement in Dating | Orion Taraban
Nov 11, 2025
Dr. Orion Taraban, a clinical psychologist and author specializing in dating dynamics, discusses the complex realities of modern dating. He reveals why women peak earlier in desirability and how men often get their value later in life. Orion explores the impact of dating apps on mismatched expectations, the dynamics of commitment and sex, and why many men still long for past lovers. Through his personal journey as a 'romantic in recovery,' he challenges traditional views on love and relationships while emphasizing the importance of knowing one's dating strategy.
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Gendered Peaks In Sexual Marketplace Value
- Men value youth and physical attractiveness, so women's desirability peaks much earlier than men's value increases with age.
- Dating app behavior mirrors this: men swipe heavily for women ~22â24 while women swipe more age-appropriately.
Sacrifice Your Twenties To Build Value
- Men in their 20s should focus on building bodies, careers, and lifestyles instead of centering dating as their primary task.
- Devote your energy to creating value so your attractiveness grows in your 30s when women often seek maturity and stability.
Upgrade Photos To Win Matches
- Improve your dating profile by investing in high-quality photos taken with good lighting and a decent camera to stand out from most men.
- Use services like Airbnb Experiences to book local photographers who can guide outfits and poses affordably.
