Desirable

In this episode, we sit down with elite matchmaker Anisa Hassan, whose work has quietly shaped the love lives of some of the world’s most powerful individuals. She offers rare perspectives on how success, wealth, and modern expectations complicate relationships, and why many people get love wrong despite having everything else right. Through personal stories and hard-earned wisdom, this conversation uncovers surprising truths that may change how you think about love, marriage, and long-term partnership.On this episode: ✅ The episode explores high net worth dating and elite matchmaking, revealing how billionaires, celebrities, and ultra-successful individuals struggle with trust, loneliness, and finding genuine love.✅ The conversation breaks down why compatibility matters more than chemistry in long-term relationships and how emotional stability and nervous system regulation impact romantic success.✅ The hosts discuss how childhood trauma, attachment styles, and past relationship patterns influence partner selection and repeated relationship failures.✅ The episode examines masculine and feminine polarity in modern relationships, including gender roles, leadership, and why role confusion creates tension and emotional disconnection.✅ The discussion highlights emotional healing, self-awareness, and personal accountability as key factors in breaking unhealthy relationship cycles and building lasting partnerships.Follow Anisa Hassan:💜 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anisa_hassan/💜 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEHo8gEZ1ndaUaafNSc-CqQ💜 Website: https://datehighflyers.com/Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

Bryan Reeves, a former Air Force veteran and men's coach, joins relationship coach Sonya Love to tackle the heavy topic of porn addiction among men. They uncover the deep-rooted shame that keeps men silent, discussing how porn affects intimacy and emotional health. Bryan shares his journey to sobriety, emphasizing the importance of accountability and community support. Sonya offers insight into creating safe spaces for partners of addicts. Together, they advocate for vulnerability, healing, and redefining masculinity beyond societal expectations.

What if most people have never actually experienced real love or real sex? This episode challenges everything we are taught about intimacy, exposing how performance, porn, and shame have replaced emotional connection and embodied pleasure. Susan argues that many relationships fail not because of a lack of love, but because we are never taught how desire, arousal, and the heart actually work together. From faking orgasms to redefining betrayal, this conversation dares to ask uncomfortable questions about monogamy, aging, and sexual fulfillment. Susan shares: ✅ Why faking orgasms and avoiding desire quietly destroy relationships ✅ How heart connection, not technique, changes sex and love completely ✅ Why betrayal, aging, and mismatched desire are misunderstood and rarely discussed honestly ✅ How intimacy can be relearned through embodiment, communication, and self-pleasureFollow Susan!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BetterLoverWebsite: susanbratton.comConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

World-traveling parents Corinne and River Hately-Richards share how conscious parenting, worldschooling, and a life on the move shaped their family values and the way their daughters experience the world. They open up about the surprising benefits of travel with young children, how real-world learning builds confidence, and what it takes to stay connected as a couple while raising kids outside traditional expectations. This conversation opens the door to reimagining family life, exploring gentle parenting, and questioning what “stability” really means for a child.Corinne & River share: ✅ Why routine does not have to mean staying in one place ✅ How travel with young kids builds confidence, communication, and curiosity ✅ Why newborns can be the easiest age to travel with ✅ How worldschooling and homeschooling fit into conscious parenting ✅ The realities of parenting while traveling, from exhaustion to deeper connection ✅ Practical tips for family travel, from snacks to strollers to choosing destinationsTimestamps: 00:00 Challenging Traditional Parenting Expectations and Societal Pressure02:10 Conscious Parenting: Rethinking Routine and Stability for Kids04:15 Traveling With Babies and Toddlers: Why Early Years Are the Easiest06:00 Raising Confident Kids Through Travel and Real-World Learning08:25 Worldschooling Benefits: Global Friendships and Cultural Exposure10:40 Healing, Loss, and Signs: Corinne’s Childhood and the Oak Leaf Story13:15 River’s Nontraditional Upbringing and Redefining “Home”15:40 Leaving Corporate Life for a Nomadic Family Lifestyle18:20 How Long-Term Travel Shapes Identity, Belonging, and Perspective21:00 Best Countries for Family Travel and Kid-Friendly Destinations24:10 Affordable Family Travel Tips and Exploring Your Own Country26:00 A Day in the Life: Parenting While Traveling Full Time28:30 Parenting Challenges: Sleep Deprivation, Exhaustion, and Emotional Load31:00 How Parenthood Changes Intimacy, Connection, and Relationships34:15 Modern Fatherhood: Vulnerability, Emotional Growth, and Parenting Roles37:00 Core Family Values: Priorities, Presence, and Raising Emotionally Healthy Kids39:00 Homeschooling vs. Worldschooling: Education Through Travel42:30 Working Together as Partners and Running a Social Media Family Business46:00 Social Media Pressure, Mental Health, and Sharing Family Life Online50:00 Essential Travel Tips for Parents: Gear, Packing, and Mindset53:00 Fun Moment: The Surprise Quiz With Corinne and River57:00 Gentle Parenting and Screen Time Boundaries for Young Kids01:03:00 Final Reflections: Why Parents Should Try New Lifestyles01:08:35 Closing Thoughts and GratitudeFollow Corinne & River:💜 Instagram: @hatelyrichardsfamily💜 YouTube: @hatelyrichardsfamily💜 Website: northsouthtravels.comConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

Follow  Dr. Anna!💜 Instagram 💜 WebsiteCan AI ever truly replace love?In this eye-opening episode of Desirable, we explore with Dr. Anna Machin how artificial intelligence is reshaping relationships and why it can never replicate the chemistry of human connection. From AI “romances” to the neuroscience of love, fatherhood, and dating in the modern world, this conversation dives into what makes us human in the age of machines.We cover:✅ Why one in four young women and one in three young men have had a romantic AI experience✅ The hidden dangers of AI “companionship"": increased isolation, depression, and distorted expectations✅ Why only human love triggers oxytocin, dopamine, and the brain chemistry that keeps us healthy and alive✅ How modern dating apps skew toward shallow connections and one app trying to flip the script✅ The science of fatherhood: how men’s hormones and brains change when they become dads✅ Why the first 1000 days of life are critical for love and secure attachment✅ The biology of cheating detection, smell, and genetic compatibility✅ Why friendship, family, and community are as vital as romantic loveThis is a deep dive into the future of relationships and a reminder that no algorithm can replace the heartbeat of human love.00:00 Understanding Testosterone and Empathy00:24 The Dangers of AI in Human Relationships03:08 The Impact of AI on Mental Health04:31 The Unrealistic Expectations Set by AI07:54 The Role of AI in Child Development09:37 The Future of Love and AI16:28 The Challenges of Modern Dating26:03 The Science Behind Attraction32:54 Understanding Love and Its Complexities34:07 The Fairy Tale of Love vs. Reality35:13 Stages of Love: Attraction to Companionate36:37 Impact of Childhood on Love and Relationships40:58 The Importance of the First 1000 Days47:31 The Mystery Item Experiment47:58 The Science of Attraction and Symmetry53:22 Monogamy vs. Polyamory: Biological and Social Perspectives58:19 Challenges in Modern Dating and Relationships01:05:36 Polyamory and Parenting Dynamics01:06:23 Diverse Family Structures01:09:15 Challenges of Adoption01:15:24 Understanding Fatherhood01:19:33 The Importance of Fathers01:32:28 Supporting Fatherhood and Single Moms   Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

Follow Laterras R. Whitfield!💜 Instagram 💜 YouTubeCan a cheater ever truly change?In this powerful episode of Desirable, Laterras Whitfield opens up about the darkest chapter of his life—his infidelity—and the transformation that turned his greatest failure into a ministry of honesty, healing, and emotional responsibility.With raw vulnerability, Laterras, Sonya, and Agon dive into the roots of betrayal, the role of intimacy, the wounds men often hide, and the kind of love that demands transparency over perfection.Laterras shares:✅ Why “once a cheater, always a cheater” steals the possibility of redemption✅ How sexual misalignment, rejection, and silence fueled a five-year cycle of cheating✅ The moment therapy forced him to face childhood trauma, shame & inherited patterns✅ Why sex is sacred—and why sexless marriages quietly break people✅ The importance of emotional safety so men stop hiding failure, fear, and desire✅ How he rebuilt himself through transparency, accountability & faith✅ His upcoming book Student of Love and why he refuses to call himself an “expert”Sonya & Agon open up about:— Sonya’s healing from infidelity in her own family— How Agon’s porn addiction improved only when Sonya created safety instead of shame— Why men’s safety is often ignored in conversations about trust and connectionThis episode is about change, redemption, and the courage to rebuild love with honesty—not perfection.   00:00 Introduction: Brutal Honesty00:03 Confessions of a Serial Cheater01:49 Understanding the Pattern of Cheating04:18 The Feather Story: Intimacy Issues in Marriage09:42 The Turning Point: Seeking Therapy and Healing20:45 The Importance of Safety and Vulnerability in Relationships24:49 The Power of Transparency and Trust36:23 Building a Stronger Future Together40:39 Realizing the Tribe Within41:06 When to End a Relationship42:59 Commitment Beyond Feelings43:19 Grounds for Divorce46:27 Misalignment in Marriage52:50 Redefining Masculine Value59:50 The Mystery Bride01:01:38 Journey to Transparency01:08:35 Becoming a Student of Love01:12:15 Conclusion and Book ReleaseConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

Dr. Orion Taraban, a clinical psychologist and author specializing in dating dynamics, discusses the complex realities of modern dating. He reveals why women peak earlier in desirability and how men often get their value later in life. Orion explores the impact of dating apps on mismatched expectations, the dynamics of commitment and sex, and why many men still long for past lovers. Through his personal journey as a 'romantic in recovery,' he challenges traditional views on love and relationships while emphasizing the importance of knowing one's dating strategy.

Follow Kirby!💜 Instagram💜 YouTube💜 Website Why do so many of us repeat the same painful relationship patterns... no matter how hard we try to change?In this episode of Desirable, Attachment Styles Expert Kirby Fling breaks down the science of attachment, the role of trauma in shaping memory, and practical tools for rewiring our patterns in love, parenting, and even the workplace. With an engineer’s mindset and years of study, he reveals how early childhood wounds echo through our adult lives and how to finally break free!You’ll learn:✅ Why attachment is more than four rigid labels and how anxious and avoidant behaviors overlap✅ The five pillars of secure attachment every child, partner, and employee needs✅ How trauma erases memory and hardwires autopilot stress responses✅ Why repair after conflict matters more than avoiding conflict altogether✅ Practical tools like the “Ideal Parent Figure Protocol” for rewiring insecure attachment✅ Why self-work, humility, and autonomy are the foundation of healthy love✅ How to use dating as a vetting process, not a validation loopKirby’s approach is a roadmap to healing yourself, parenting consciously, and building relationships that last.Chapters:00:00 Introduction: Understanding Love and Relationships00:38 Steps to Self-Discovery in Relationships01:10 The Role of Validation and Transactional Relationships02:14 The Importance of Early Dating Dynamics05:13 Attachment Styles and Their Impact26:52 The Five Pillars of Attachment42:53 Building Emotional Resilience43:45 Ideal Parent Figure Protocol (IPF)44:37 Rewiring the Nervous System46:11 Creating New Emotional Memories47:27 The Power of Secure Attachment56:01 The Role of Emotions in Learning01:00:14 The Importance of Social Status01:04:36 Emotional Expression and Cultural Norms01:10:27 Navigating Emotional Vulnerability in Relationships01:17:18 Interactive Segment: Relationship Advice01:25:23 Final Thoughts on Self-RelationshipConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

In this captivating discussion, Andrew Bustamante, a former CIA intelligence officer and author of 'Shadow Cell', shares how espionage intersects with everyday life, especially in relationships. He recounts his covert six-month proposal to his CIA-agent wife and the emotional complexities of loving someone trained to distrust. Bustamante explores how parenting like a spy, using techniques like the 'illusion of choice,' can foster growth. He also discusses how the CIA uses trauma to recruit and why emotional security is crucial in a relationship shaped by deception.

Follow Sara:💜 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/saraalmadani/💜 Website: https://saraalmadani.comDr. Sara Al Madani has survived narcissistic abuse, built 9 businesses, raised her son as a single mother, and written a book that says it all: Dear Narcissist, F*** You. On Desirable, she opens up about the price of authenticity, the power of healing, and why self-love is the foundation for real confidence, parenting, and relationships.In this powerful conversation, Sara shares:✅ Why entrepreneurial success comes from healing, not hustle✅ How she balances masculine energy in business with feminine in love✅ Radical parenting lessons from raising her son with honesty and respect✅ The hidden cost of narcissistic relationships and how to break trauma bonds✅ Why forgiveness is freedom, not weakness✅ Her unapologetic take on Real Housewives and using the platform to spread truth✅ Why being hated is the ultimate proof of authenticityThis is a roadmap to healing, reclaiming self-worth, and daring to live as your truest self!   TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Introduction: Redefining Parenthood00:25 Meet Sara Al Madani: A Modern Emirati Woman00:46 Struggles and Triumphs in Love01:19 The Journey of Forgiveness01:58 Surprising News and Future Plans02:37 Balancing Business and Motherhood03:08 Challenging Societal Norms04:57 Embracing Masculine and Feminine Energies11:00 Raising Children with Honesty and Independence15:34 Facing Criticism and Staying Authentic25:34 Surviving Narcissistic Relationships35:49 Understanding Narcissism36:22 Self-Reflection and Growth37:59 The Power of Solitude48:31 The Journey of Forgiveness01:01:24 The Importance of Self-Investment01:05:03 Navigating Reality TV with SpiritualityConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program