Desirable

Follow Dr. Orion!💜 Instagram 💜 YouTubeWho really has the advantage in today’s dating world: men or women?In this provocative episode of Desirable, clinical psychologist Dr. Orion Taraban joins Sonya Love & Agon Love to break down the raw dynamics of modern dating, from age gaps and attraction to the shifting power of sex and commitment. With several years of experience working with thousands of clients, Orion brings psychological insight into the realities few people want to admit.They dive into:✅ Why women peak earlier in desirability, while men “come into their value” later in life✅ The role of youth, beauty, maturity, and stability in attraction✅ Why “commitment before sex” is less effective in today’s competitive landscape✅ How dating apps amplify mismatched expectations and age gaps✅ Why many men secretly carry torches for past lovers for decades✅ Orion’s personal journey as a “romantic in recovery” and lessons from his mistakes✅ The philosophical question: are we losing true love by reducing dating to swipes and numbers?This episode challenges modern dating norms and asks the hard questions: what do we really want, and what does it cost to get it?  00:00 Introduction: Women's Peak Age According to Men00:31 Dating Dynamics and Gender Differences01:23 Challenges in Modern Dating03:26 The Role of Sex in Relationships05:42 Marriage and Commitment07:29 Understanding Love and Relationships13:00 Men's Dating Strategies and Challenges17:01 Improving Dating Profiles20:02 The Impact of Sex on Relationship Dynamics34:00 Why Women Get Ghosted After Sex36:46 The Cost of Casual Encounters38:05 Spotting Red Flags in Dating39:27 The Shift in Effort Post-Sex40:49 The Role of Commitment and Effort42:41 Navigating Modern Dating and Relationships45:00 Conventional vs. Unconventional Dating46:31 The Importance of Self-Honesty in Dating48:46 The Reality of Long-Term Relationships49:37 The Future of Relationships51:13 Advice for New Daters58:54 Personal Reflections on Dating01:14:32 The Mystery Item: A Sentimental Chair01:18:57 Closing Thoughts and Future PlansConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

Follow Kirby!💜 Instagram💜 YouTube💜 Website Why do so many of us repeat the same painful relationship patterns... no matter how hard we try to change?In this episode of Desirable, Attachment Styles Expert Kirby Fling breaks down the science of attachment, the role of trauma in shaping memory, and practical tools for rewiring our patterns in love, parenting, and even the workplace. With an engineer’s mindset and years of study, he reveals how early childhood wounds echo through our adult lives and how to finally break free!You’ll learn:✅ Why attachment is more than four rigid labels and how anxious and avoidant behaviors overlap✅ The five pillars of secure attachment every child, partner, and employee needs✅ How trauma erases memory and hardwires autopilot stress responses✅ Why repair after conflict matters more than avoiding conflict altogether✅ Practical tools like the “Ideal Parent Figure Protocol” for rewiring insecure attachment✅ Why self-work, humility, and autonomy are the foundation of healthy love✅ How to use dating as a vetting process, not a validation loopKirby’s approach is a roadmap to healing yourself, parenting consciously, and building relationships that last.Chapters:00:00 Introduction: Understanding Love and Relationships00:38 Steps to Self-Discovery in Relationships01:10 The Role of Validation and Transactional Relationships02:14 The Importance of Early Dating Dynamics05:13 Attachment Styles and Their Impact26:52 The Five Pillars of Attachment42:53 Building Emotional Resilience43:45 Ideal Parent Figure Protocol (IPF)44:37 Rewiring the Nervous System46:11 Creating New Emotional Memories47:27 The Power of Secure Attachment56:01 The Role of Emotions in Learning01:00:14 The Importance of Social Status01:04:36 Emotional Expression and Cultural Norms01:10:27 Navigating Emotional Vulnerability in Relationships01:17:18 Interactive Segment: Relationship Advice01:25:23 Final Thoughts on Self-RelationshipConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

In this captivating discussion, Andrew Bustamante, a former CIA intelligence officer and author of 'Shadow Cell', shares how espionage intersects with everyday life, especially in relationships. He recounts his covert six-month proposal to his CIA-agent wife and the emotional complexities of loving someone trained to distrust. Bustamante explores how parenting like a spy, using techniques like the 'illusion of choice,' can foster growth. He also discusses how the CIA uses trauma to recruit and why emotional security is crucial in a relationship shaped by deception.

Follow Sara:💜 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/saraalmadani/💜 Website: https://saraalmadani.comDr. Sara Al Madani has survived narcissistic abuse, built 9 businesses, raised her son as a single mother, and written a book that says it all: Dear Narcissist, F*** You. On Desirable, she opens up about the price of authenticity, the power of healing, and why self-love is the foundation for real confidence, parenting, and relationships.In this powerful conversation, Sara shares:✅ Why entrepreneurial success comes from healing, not hustle✅ How she balances masculine energy in business with feminine in love✅ Radical parenting lessons from raising her son with honesty and respect✅ The hidden cost of narcissistic relationships and how to break trauma bonds✅ Why forgiveness is freedom, not weakness✅ Her unapologetic take on Real Housewives and using the platform to spread truth✅ Why being hated is the ultimate proof of authenticityThis is a roadmap to healing, reclaiming self-worth, and daring to live as your truest self!   TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Introduction: Redefining Parenthood00:25 Meet Sara Al Madani: A Modern Emirati Woman00:46 Struggles and Triumphs in Love01:19 The Journey of Forgiveness01:58 Surprising News and Future Plans02:37 Balancing Business and Motherhood03:08 Challenging Societal Norms04:57 Embracing Masculine and Feminine Energies11:00 Raising Children with Honesty and Independence15:34 Facing Criticism and Staying Authentic25:34 Surviving Narcissistic Relationships35:49 Understanding Narcissism36:22 Self-Reflection and Growth37:59 The Power of Solitude48:31 The Journey of Forgiveness01:01:24 The Importance of Self-Investment01:05:03 Navigating Reality TV with SpiritualityConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

Follow Charlie Rocket!💜 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlie/💜 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@charlierocketofficial/videos💜 Dream Machine: https://www.instagram.com/dreammachine/What would you call someone who walks away from millions in the music industry… at the height of success… to chase an “impossible” dream?Delusional? Correct. But also inspiring? Absolutely.For Charlie Rocket, the answer was simple: believe bigger.Grammy-winning music manager turned Emmy-winning athlete, philanthropist, and dreamer, Charlie embodies what he calls “delusional optimism.” He’s proof that belief creates reality, and that setbacks are just setups for something greater.In this electrifying episode of Desirable, Charlie opens up about:✅ Manifesting a Nike commercial with LeBron James and Serena Williams after creating his own ad for $660✅ Walking away from fame, money, and music at 300 pounds with a brain tumor✅ Reinventing himself again and again: athlete, CEO, philanthropist✅ Why words are spells and how to reprogram identity with superhero names✅ Turning heartbreak, rejection, and “crazy” labels into fuel for belief✅ The power of service: helping others make their dreams come true first✅ Finding love, health, and fulfillment beyond successIt’s living proof that dreams are real the moment you decide to believe!TIMESTAMPS:00:00 The Vegas Incident: A Shocking Encounter with Soulja Boy00:20 Charlie Rocket's Rise in the Music Industry00:46 A Life-Changing Vision: From Music Mogul to Nike Athlete02:32 The Power of Belief and Overcoming Adversity04:42 The Journey of Reinvention: From Manager to Athlete07:31 The Turning Point: Health Scare and New Beginnings08:38 Manifesting Dreams: The Nike Commercial Vision15:18 The Search for a Videographer: A Stroke of Luck54:49 The Creative Vision: PVC Pipe and Anamorphic Lens55:56 Unexpected Call from Nike56:47 Nike's New Direction58:49 The Dream Crazy Commercial59:33 Reflecting on the Journey01:01:39 Believing in Yourself01:03:56 Overcoming Childhood Doubts01:11:25 The Power of Vulnerability01:15:39 Chasing Dreams and Finding Love01:21:35 The Importance of Transparency01:25:01 Celebrating Love and Relationships01:38:28 The Impact of Social Media01:42:37 Dream Big: The NotebookConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

Follow The Clements!💜 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theclements_/💜 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheClements💜 Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@TwoandTenThousandPodcast💜 Website: https://www.theclements.co🎙️ “You cannot convince me that Winston satisfies Mayfair’s needs…”That’s the kind of comment Winston & Mayfair Clements have faced ever since their engagement photos went viral. Instead of congratulations, strangers questioned their love, their intimacy, even their ability to raise children.But here’s the truth: Winston has survived over 200 bone fractures from brittle bone disease — and turned that challenge into a platform for impact. Together, he and Mayfair have built a marriage, a family, and a mission that proves love truly knows no limits.In this powerful episode of Desirable, Winston & Mayfair open up about:✅ Facing viral scrutiny with humor and resilience✅ Navigating intimacy and communication in an inter-abled marriage✅ Raising their daughter while blending travel, purpose, and faith✅ Redefining what it means to support each other’s hearts✅ Building a legacy of compassion and inclusionThis is one of the most inspiring love stories we’ve ever shared — and we hope it makes you believe in love again, too. ❤️TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Introduction and Mission of the Podcast00:39 How We Fell in Love: Two Versions02:38 Building a Relationship and Community08:01 Family Reactions and Acceptance11:47 Dealing with Public Perception and Negativity20:39 Pursuing Dreams and Career Changes31:33 Parenting and Maintaining Intimacy39:46 The Importance of Therapy and Counseling40:52 The Decision to Seek Counseling41:27 The Role of Spiritual Guidance43:28 Maintaining Connection in a Busy Life46:33 Understanding Brittle Bone Disease47:48 Faith and Overcoming Challenges51:13 Parenting and Inclusivity54:13 The Importance of Community56:55 Men and Emotional Responsibility01:00:32 Navigating Postpartum Challenges01:04:46 Disability and Social Interactions01:16:44 Choosing to Have Children01:19:29 Believing in Love Again01:23:00 Final Thoughts and GratitudeConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

Are you truly prepared for a lifelong commitment? How can you survive your own trauma to still find The One?For the first time ever after years of being known as the faces of a viral social media channel, newly-married couple Sonya Love and Agon Love sit down to reveal the raw, unfiltered truth about their relationship!From waiting 6 months before getting intimate, confronting childhood trauma, to even postponing their wedding, this is the side of their love story you’ve never seen.They open up about:✅ Why they almost canceled their wedding✅ The real reason they said “I do” alone✅ Childhood trauma, toxic relationships, and how healing shaped their love✅ Why they waited 6 months before having sex and what it taught them✅ Fears about parenthood and breaking cycles from their familiesJoin us for this heartfelt conversation that will make you believe in love again!TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Wedding and Podcast Introduction01:09 Our Unique Wedding Plans03:13 The Importance of Choosing the Right Partner04:07 Overcoming a Troubled Past06:45 The Journey to Self-Love and Healthy Relationships14:27 Advice for Those in Toxic Relationships19:30 The Beginnings of Our Love Story20:08 Meeting During COVID: Our First Date37:30 Navigating Early Relationship Challenges38:55 Ego and Insecurities in Love40:26 Building a Strong Foundation42:45 Parenthood: A New Chapter44:56 Fears and Realizations About Parenting50:24 Balancing Parenthood and Partnership59:04 Viewer Segment: Am I the Asshole?01:06:40 Embracing Past Relationships01:15:34 Looking Forward to MarriageConnect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program