341 Elizabeth Gilbert on Creating Big Magic and Staying Grounded
Jun 13, 2016
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Bestselling author Elizabeth Gilbert discusses the significance of curiosity over passion, the impact of fear in pursuing creativity, and the importance of serving others with humility and authenticity. Reflecting on personal growth, gratitude, and pursuing dreams, the conversation emphasizes following subtle invitations towards transformation and finding fulfillment in creating work that truly matters.
Authentic connections come from genuine curiosity and attention to others, not seeking attention.
Returning to core values and integrity after success or failure brings stability and purpose.
Humility and service are essential for creating meaningful connections and lasting impact.
Deep dives
Focus on genuine curiosity rather than seeking attention
The key to making a lasting impact is moving beyond seeking attention to focusing on genuine curiosity. By giving your attention to others and being of service, you create a more meaningful connection that resonates with people at a deeper level. This approach allows you to engage authentically and positively impact others.
Maintaining balance after achieving monumental success
After experiencing great success, it is essential to return to your 'zero,' your core values, and reasons for doing the work you love. Both monumental success and significant failure can throw you away from your center, but recalibrating and focusing on your integrity, ethics, and devotion to your craft brings you back to stability and purpose.
Recognizing the importance of humility and service
Humility and service are the pillars of authentic connection and impact. Understanding that greatness should not overshadow goodness allows for genuine interactions and meaningful relationships. Viewing others with empathy and making them feel seen and valued creates a lasting and positive influence on those around you.
Appreciating the power of vulnerability and genuine connection
Being authentic, vulnerable, and present in interactions allows for genuine connections and meaningful relationships. Embracing vulnerability and showing your true self enables others to relate and connect on a deeper level. By being open and genuine, you create space for real and impactful interactions that resonate with others.
Embracing Gratitude and Service
Embracing gratitude and being of service were highlighted in the podcast. The guest emphasized the importance of living a life centered on gratitude, starting the day with thoughts of thankfulness, and encouraging generosity through gratefulness. The concept of service was discussed as a transformational motivation, shifting from personal achievement to serving others. By prioritizing gratitude and service, the guest emphasized the profound impact on one's outlook and interactions.
Learning From Personal History and Remaining a Student
The importance of learning from personal history and continuously seeking growth emerged as a key theme. The guest reflected on their past experiences, acknowledging the impact of upbringing on their present self. They discussed the value of being a lifelong student, actively pursuing knowledge and guidance in areas where upbringing may have lacked. By adopting a mindset of continuous learning and self-improvement, the guest emphasized the potential for personal transformation and fulfillment.
"Never let your greatness get in the way of your goodness." - Elizabeth Gilbert
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