Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging

Ask Us Anything - Episode 14

Nov 22, 2024

In this engaging discussion, Meshai, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with expertise in Trauma and Sex Therapy, joins Fin, a seasoned relationship coach. They tackle listener questions with sincerity while sharing personal experiences in the coaching world. The conversation dives into how to effectively communicate about non-monogamous practices, the significance of empathy in relationships, and they even debate the cheeky criteria for being part of an orgy. Humor and valuable insights make for a lively exchange!

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Quick takeaways

Flexibility in understanding different relationship models is essential for cultural enrichment and individual fulfillment in non-monogamy.

The hosts illustrate their personal journeys into relationship coaching which emphasize curiosity and personal growth as transformative tools for connection.

Effective communication about values and boundaries is crucial when engaging with non-monogamous individuals to foster ethical and meaningful relationships.

Deep dives

Embracing Relationship Diversity

Flexibility in thought around sexuality and relationships is emphasized as vital for cultural flourishing and personal happiness. Historical evidence suggests that societies that embrace diverse relationship models tend to thrive and create environments where all members, especially children, are better supported. Acknowledging that everyone experiences life differently is crucial for understanding relationship dynamics. The podcast aims to normalize discussions about non-monogamy and relationship diversity, encouraging individuals to explore their true selves without shame.

Intro

2min

Exploring Paths to Relationship Coaching

3min

Navigating Relationships and Cultural Dynamics

11min

From Engineer to Empath: A Journey in Relationships

7min

Embracing the Journey of Unconventional Living

3min

Navigating Intentionality and Empathy in Relationships

4min

Navigating Connection and Ethics in Non-Monogamy

15min

Exploring the Dynamics of Orgies

12min

Meshai and Fin team up together to answer amazing listener questions every fourth Friday of each month!

Today we are answering questions from our virtual community... We get a bit personal and talk about our own journeys into the world of coaching and working with people in sex-positive and non-monogamous spaces. We also talk about when and how to have conversations with new potential connections about their approach to non-monogamy and... We make an official ruling on what counts as being in an orgy!

Meshai is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and is certified in both Trauma Therapy and Sex Therapy, and she is trained in Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Learn more about Meshai and all of her work over at expansiveconnection.com!

You likely know me (Fin) from over 300 episodes of Normalizing Non-Monogamy. Just in case you don't, I cohost the podcast with my partner Emma and we have been in an open relationship together for over 15 years. I also completed a sex and relationship coaching program through the Somatica Institute in March 2024!

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