Kevin Hart ON: How to Conquer Your Fear of Failing & Processing the Obstacles of Forgiveness, Love, and Loss
Jan 9, 2023
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Kevin Hart, a powerhouse actor, comedian, author, and entrepreneur, shares insights on self-love and the power of team effort. He discusses the necessity of focusing on solutions rather than problems and reflects on the complexities of forgiveness and familial relationships. Hart emphasizes transforming complacency into creativity and the importance of a supportive community. He candidly navigates the challenges of fame, tying personal transformation to genuine introspection and community connections, fostering a mindset of growth.
The importance of teamwork and inclusivity for success.
The value of challenging oneself and embracing new opportunities.
Supporting and celebrating the success of others fosters positivity and collaboration.
Appreciating the journey and genuine achievements rather than fixating on rankings and external measures of success.
Deep dives
The Power of Teamwork and Inclusion
Kevin Hart emphasizes the importance of teamwork and inclusivity for success. He believes that no one attains success alone and acknowledges the value of surrounding oneself with a supportive and collaborative team. By embracing the notion that success is a team effort, individuals can achieve greater heights and create a positive impact together.
The Transformation from Complacency to Hard Work
Kevin Hart reflects on his journey from being complacent to becoming one of the hardest working individuals in entertainment. He highlights the importance of challenging oneself and trying new things, as well as the mindset shift of being open to multiple ventures and opportunities. By adopting a mindset of continuous improvement and adapting to new challenges, individuals can overcome complacency and strive for personal and professional growth.
Celebrating Others' Success and Avoiding Unhealthy Competition
Kevin Hart promotes celebrating and supporting the success of others rather than engaging in unhealthy competition. He shares the importance of friendships and relationships in the entertainment industry, emphasizing that success is not a zero-sum game where one person's success means another's failure. By fostering positivity, collaboration, and unity, individuals can uplift each other and contribute to a thriving community.
Embracing Realistic Expectations and Recognizing True Success
Kevin Hart discusses the dangers of setting unrealistic expectations tied to being number one in every endeavor. He acknowledges the addiction to achieving the top spot and the effects it can have on individuals' perception of success. Instead, he emphasizes the importance of appreciating the journey, the effort put into projects, and celebrating the genuine achievements along the way, rather than fixating solely on rankings and external measures of success.
The Power of Fame and the Need for Balance
Kevin Hart reflects on the dangers and consequences of fame, emphasizing the importance of not letting it control and define one's life. He shares his own experiences, including moments of reflection after cheating scandal, and highlights the need to constantly strive for personal growth and improvement.
Embracing Authenticity and Openness
Kevin Hart discusses the importance of being authentic and transparent, both in his work and personal life. He encourages others to embrace their flaws and mistakes, and to engage in open and honest communication. He also stresses the significance of personal growth, self-awareness, and constantly questioning one's own actions and motivations.
The Journey towards Self-Improvement and Balancing Priorities
Kevin Hart talks about his ongoing journey towards self-improvement, including the challenges of balancing work, family, and personal responsibilities. He acknowledges the constant struggle to do better, particularly as a parent, and emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, humility, and constantly striving for a deeper understanding of oneself.
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Today, I am talking to Kevin Hart. Kevin is an actor, comedian, author, investor, and CEO. Over the years he has become Hollywood’s box office powerhouse, opening ten films at number one at the box office with $4.23 billion revenue at the global box office. In 2020 Hart starred in “Die Hart,” the first production of its kind, created through his digital network, Laugh Out Loud, and Executive Produced through his production company, Hartbeat Productions. Kevin’s memoir, I Can’t Make This Up, debuted at number one on The New York Times Best Sellers List and remained on the Top 10 Nonfiction Hardcover Bestsellers List for ten weeks straight. Kevin’s digital network, the Laugh Out Loud Network, serves as a platform for emerging comedians and is home to two premium series which both feature Kevin – “What the Fit?” and “Cold as Balls.”
We get to see Kevin’s serious side as he talks about self love and team effort. He places emphasis on the importance of focusing our energy on finding a solution rather than wasting time on the problem, how team effort is the foundation to all forms of success, why we should always consider both sides of the story, the beauty of cheering for others success and celebrating it with them, and how self love and self appreciation must start with you and not come from someone else.
Truly, there is no shortcut to success. It is earned through hard work, clear purpose, surrounding yourself with the right people, and a multitude of self love.
What We Discuss:
00:00:00 Intro
00:03:19 Looking in the mirror and being okay with yourself
00:07:38 Having parents that opens opportunities for you
00:13:06 Don’t focus on the problem, focus on the solution
00:20:45 It’s hard to see the good if you’re only seeing the bad
00:25:20 The simplest things came from an idea
00:35:12 Team effort is the foundation of success
00:43:19 Celebrate each other’s success
00:58:24 Talk to yourself
01:06:47 Looking at things with both lenses
01:10:16 You gotta learn it
01:15:12 Would you wish pain and suffering for anyone?
