Heather Fairlee Denbrough, an experienced play therapist, discusses strategies for supporting children dealing with suicidal ideation. Topics include recognizing signs, creating a safe space for expression, developing safety plans, and prioritizing self-care for therapists. Don't miss this crucial conversation!
Recognizing subtle signs of suicidal ideation in children
Creating a structured safety plan for children experiencing suicidal thoughts
Deep dives
The Importance of Addressing Suicidal Ideation in Children
This podcast episode delves into the topic of suicidal ideation in children, which is often overlooked or avoided. The guest speaker highlights the significance of addressing this issue and urges therapists to have open conversations and ask direct questions to children and their parents. The episode emphasizes the importance of creating a structured safety plan for children experiencing suicidal thoughts and involving the child in the decision-making process. Additionally, the podcast highlights the impact this topic can have on therapists and their own well-being, emphasizing the need for self-care and providing resources for support and regulation techniques.
Identifying Suicidal Ideation in Children
The podcast discusses various signs and behaviors that may indicate suicidal ideation in children. These signs include verbal statements expressing a desire to die or harm oneself, engaging in dangerous activities, exhibiting intense and overwhelming death-related play themes, and displaying a pervasive sense of hopelessness and shame. The episode emphasizes the importance of carefully listening to parents and caregivers who may report concerning behaviors in their child and the significance of not dismissing or downplaying such statements. By identifying these indicators, therapists can better understand the child's emotional state and provide appropriate support.
Developing Safety Plans and Supporting Parents
The episode stresses the importance of developing safety plans for children experiencing suicidal ideation. These plans involve clearly defining thoughts and triggers, identifying warning signs, and creating strategies for stress reduction and regulation. The guest speaker emphasizes the role of parents and caregivers in this process, encouraging therapists to support them in asking direct questions and fostering open communication about suicidal thoughts. Additionally, the episode acknowledges the grief and guilt that parents may experience upon learning about their child's suicidal ideation and the need to provide them with emotional support and reassurance. Safety plans help parents feel empowered and equipped to address their child's emotional needs.
Caring for Therapists and Coping with Intense Feelings
The podcast highlights the emotional impact that working with children experiencing suicidal ideation can have on therapists. It stresses the need for therapists to prioritize their own well-being and regulate their nervous systems while engaging in sessions focused on this topic. The episode explains the importance of employing self-care practices and offers a tapping technique as a grounding exercise. This helps therapists manage the intensity and potential dysregulation that may occur during sessions. By caring for themselves, therapists can be more present, attentive, and effective in supporting children and their families through this challenging process.
In this episode, Lisa Dion is joined by the fantabulous and oh-so-knowledgeable Heather Fairlee Denbrough, a Certified Synergetic Play Therapist/Supervisor, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and Registered Play Therapist Supervisor. Together, they tackle one of the most requested and also one of the most scariest topics for therapists … providing support to children dealing with suicidal ideation and attempts.
This episode is a valuable resource for any caregiver or professional working with children. Join Lisa and Heather as they shed light on this important and often misunderstood topic, providing insights, strategies, and hope for supporting children who may be experiencing suicidal thoughts. Don't miss out on this crucial conversation!
Key Takeaways:
Recognizing subtle signs of suicidal ideation in children
Creating a safe space for children to express their feelings
Holding space for children through play to explore and shift their stories and perceptions
Developing structured safety plans with children and caregivers, identifying red flags and triggers
Facilitating open dialogue on suicidal ideation with both children and caregivers
Prioritizing self-care for therapists and managing the emotional impact (... Heather shares valuable and powerful techniques and tools that help her maintain her own felt safety during sessions)
Preparing for challenging scenarios and accessing support networks during tough times (...there’s lots of support and resources so don’t feel you have to tackle this alone!)
Listen and join this conversation that sheds light on childhood suicidality, providing guidance on navigating it with empathy, connection, and compassion. ❤️ (Please note: This podcast episode is for educational purposes only and does not substitute professional advice.)
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