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1042: Self-Improvement through Personality Change with Olga Khazan

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Mar 20, 2025
Olga Khazan, a Staff writer for The Atlantic and author of "Me, But Better," dives into the fascinating world of personality change. She discusses the misconceptions around authenticity and how adapting behaviors can enhance mental health. The conversation reveals the Big Five personality traits and tools for self-evaluation, while mindfulness is highlighted as a key method for personal transformation. Olga shares practical steps to boost extroversion and emphasizes that personal identity can evolve at any stage of life, encouraging listeners to embrace their own growth.
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INSIGHT

Authenticity Paradox

  • Introverts report feeling happier when acting extroverted.
  • Surprisingly, they also feel more "true to themselves" after such experiences.
INSIGHT

Authenticity vs. Values

  • "Authenticity" can be problematic, as our truest impulses aren't always beneficial.
  • Prioritize actions aligning with values and goals over momentary feelings.
ANECDOTE

Evolving Authenticity

  • Sonia Lubomirsky initially disliked running, finding it inauthentic.
  • With practice, running became authentic, highlighting how "authenticity" evolves.
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