In this episode of Business Lunch, Roland Frasier and Ryan Deiss explain how the classic four-stage buying journey has collapsed into one momentโand why trust is the lid that keeps prospects โpoppingโ in your pot. They unpack three forms of trustโIdentity, Competence, and Proximityโwith sharp wins and public flops (Nike, Sephora, Peloton, DSW, Starbucks, Apple, United). Youโll get simple creative frameworks to turn short-form content into instant, in-channel conversions and a 14-day sprint to prove it on a small budget.
Highlights
- โItโs not a funnel anymoreโitโs a popcorn popper. Your audience are kernels heating at different speeds. Trust is the lid that keeps them popping for you.โ
- โCompetence trust means the brand โgets meโโoften better than I can describe myself.โ
- โEmployees outperform celebrities for reach and credibilityโbecause most buyers are employees.โ
- โFrictionless is forgettable. Add desirable friction that helps buyers name their pain and act.โ
- โIf you canโt pivot your model, bolt trust into your media: mirror-micro-media, why-what-where, people-place-proof.โ
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Three Trust Types (MAP mnemonic):
- M โ Identity trust: Mirror โ Micro โ Media
- A โ Competence trust: โAnswerโ with Why โ What โ Where
- P โ Proximity trust: People โ Place โ Proof
Competence wins & misses: Nikeโs โWhy do it?โ repositioning; Sephora tutorials lifting AOV; Pelotonโs 2019 holiday ad backlash.
Proximity plays: DSW AR try-ons; Starbucks barista TikToks; Apple retail specialists; cautionary taleโUnited Airlines viral incidents.
Localization tactics: regional currency/sites, geo-specific visuals (city skylines), and micro-influencers by market.
KPI effects: higher AOV/retention/loyalty from competence; higher LTV from proximity; employee posts driving outsized reach.
Timestamps
- 00:00 โ The collapsed customer journey: from funnel to popcorn popper (trust as the lid)
- 04:00 โ Recap: Identity trust (mirror, micro, media)โand why episodes stand alone but compound
- 07:30 โ Competence trust: the brand that โgets meโ (Nike shift, Sephora demos) + Peloton misread
- 14:20 โ Framework for competence: Why โ What โ Where (myth-bust, demo, direct CTA)
- 17:30 โ Example: 30-sec tax advisory myth-buster โ LinkedIn/Reels โ consult link โ track AOV
- 20:10 โ Proximity trust: employees, in-place context, show real proof (DSW AR, Starbucks, Apple)
- 24:10 โ Employee content > celebrity polish; make it authentic, even shot on phone
- 26:00 โ 14-day Trust Sprint and MAP recap; why proximity is overlooked yet most scalable
Takeaways for Operators
- Stop chasing linear funnels; engineer trust in-channel so action can happen immediately.
- Use Why โ What โ Where to collapse steps: name the pain, show the fix, drop the link.
- Turn staff into a media network: People โ Place โ Proof with incentives and simple tracking.
- Localize by currency, domains, visuals, accents, micro-influencersโit quietly multiplies conversion.
- Run a 14-day sprint: baseline CAC/AOV โ recruit 3 customers + 3 insiders โ record shorts โ post/boost winners โ re-measure.
- Remember MAP: Mirror-Micro-Media; Answer (Why-What-Where); People-Place-Proof. Build trust, and the journey collapses in your favor.
๐ง Whether youโre in B2B services or retail, this playbook turns everyday posts into high-trust, one-step conversionsโwithout celebrity budgets.
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