The Sabrina Zohar Show 101: Chasing Potential And Putting Them On A Pedestal With Silvy Khoucasian
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Oct 11, 2024 Silvy Khoucasian, a relationship coach and writer specializing in attachment styles, reflects on her journey with fearful-avoidant attachment. She discusses the tendency to chase potential in partners and the pitfalls of idealizing them, which prevents genuine intimacy. Silvy shares insights from her experience, emphasizing the need for self-awareness, honest communication, and understanding one's emotional needs. They explore the impact of childhood traumas on adult relationships and offer practical tips for fostering healthier connections.
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Silvy's Attachment Journey
- Silvy experienced fearful-avoidant attachment after a 7-year relationship.
- Unrealistic standards and projecting insecurities led to avoidance.
Avoid Threats
- Avoid making threats to leave during conflicts, especially if you have anxious attachment.
- Such threats damage trust and create instability for both partners.
Managing Vulnerabilities
- Silvy and her husband learned to recognize each other's triggers and vulnerabilities.
- They now communicate their feelings and needs more effectively, even during conflict.