Is it Adult ADHD or Overwhelm? | Clutterbug Podcast # 249
Nov 18, 2024
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Kristen Carder, host of the 'I Have ADHD' podcast and creator of the Focused coaching program, shares her expertise in adult ADHD, particularly in women. She discusses the common misdiagnosis of ADHD as anxiety or depression, and the importance of accurate diagnosis. The conversation dives into personal journeys of coaching, dispelling myths, and the significance of self-acceptance. Kristen offers practical strategies to manage ADHD challenges, while encouraging listeners to embrace their unique organizational styles and strengths.
Adult ADHD is often misdiagnosed in women, leading to confusion with anxiety or depression and hindering proper treatment.
Building self-trust and establishing clear rules can significantly help individuals with ADHD enhance their organization and decision-making skills.
Deep dives
Understanding ADHD Diagnosis in Women
ADHD is often underdiagnosed or misdiagnosed in women, with many attributing their struggles to anxiety or depression rather than recognizing the condition. The speaker, who was diagnosed five years ago, shares their journey of understanding that disorganization and procrastination are symptoms of ADHD, not indicators of laziness or poor self-discipline. Conversations with experts highlight the lack of awareness around adult ADHD and the importance of proper diagnosis. This new perspective sheds light on the challenges many women face, allowing them to seek help instead of attributing their difficulties to personal failings.
The Diagnostic Challenges and Misconceptions
Understanding the differences between general forgetfulness and ADHD symptoms is critical, as ADHD exacerbates existing issues rather than creating new ones. Clinicians consider various diagnostic criteria, which include persistent deficiencies across multiple life areas, including work and social settings. Moreover, the speaker emphasizes the need for accurate assessments, as ADHD may often be overlooked in favor of diagnoses like anxiety or depression due to aspects such as hyperactivity not being present. Such misunderstandings contribute to the ongoing struggle for many, highlighting the importance of specialized care for more accurate diagnosis.
Building Self-Trust and Effective Organization
Many individuals with ADHD struggle with self-trust, affecting their ability to make decisions, including those related to organization. This lack of confidence often stems from negative reinforcement during childhood, resulting in feelings of irresponsibility or unreliability. Establishing clear rules and boundaries aids individuals in building trust in their decision-making abilities, especially when it comes to decluttering and organizing their spaces. By recognizing that they can adapt their organization strategies to fit their personal needs, individuals can work towards creating a more organized and manageable environment.
ADHD as a Spectrum of Experiences
Discussions in the podcast reveal that ADHD is a complex condition that manifests differently in each individual, requiring tailored approaches to management. The conversation addresses misconceptions that ADHD is merely a superpower, emphasizing that while individuals can thrive with proper support, the challenges faced should not be overlooked. Experts encourage individuals to harness their unique strengths while acknowledging the realities of the condition and the hard work required for self-management. By advocating for the right education, resources, and community support, individuals with ADHD can pave the way for a more empowered experience.
Have you ever wondered if your struggles with organization, time management, or procrastination might be something more? Five years ago, I discovered that my challenges weren’t about discipline—they were symptoms of ADHD. Today, I’m joined by Kristen Carder, host of the I Have ADHD podcast and creator of the Focused coaching program. Together, we’ll explore why adult ADHD—especially in women—is often misdiagnosed, how to identify it, and practical strategies to live a fulfilling life. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or questioning if ADHD could be a factor, this episode offers clarity and hope.