S35 E2: "Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships" by Nedra Glover Tawwab
Oct 6, 2023
10:50
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Nedra Glover Tawwab, licensed therapist and bestselling relationship expert, offers clear advice for identifying dysfunctional family patterns and breaking the cycle. She emphasizes compassion, clear communication, and ongoing healing. It's important to remember loved ones who have passed away and seek support from mentors, therapists, and friends.
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Understanding the backstory of family members who have harmed us can help cultivate compassion while acknowledging the harm they caused.
Taking charge and being the cycle breaker in managing unhealthy family relationships can lead to positive changes and healthier dynamics.
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Seeing people as more than one thing
When someone has harmed you, it can be difficult to see beyond the harm they caused. However, it is important to dig deeper and consider their backstories and experiences. By doing so, you can develop compassion for their situation while still acknowledging the harm they caused. This compassion can help reduce stress and anger in dealing with family members who have hurt us.
Being the change in family relationships
In managing unhealthy family relationships, it may not always be effective to expect the problematic family member to fix the issues. Instead, taking charge and being the cycle breaker can lead to positive changes. Clearly communicating needs and expectations, rather than expecting the other person to guess them, can foster healthier dynamics. Healing and moving forward in family relationships is an ongoing process that requires time and support from chosen family members and other trusted sources.
Today, licensed therapist and bestselling relationship expert Nedra Glover Tawwab offers clear advice for identifying dysfunctional family patterns and choosing the best path to breaking the cycle and moving forward.