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The science (and art) of creating lasting sexual connections | Emily Nagoski on TED Talks Daily Summer Book Club
Feb 25, 2025
Emily Nagoski, a renowned sex educator and author of 'Come Together,' dives deep into creating lasting sexual connections while debunking common myths. She shares insights on the importance of effective communication and self-awareness in enhancing intimacy. Discover how pleasure, rather than just desire, can transform relationships. Nagoski also emphasizes redefining intimacy in long-term relationships, highlighting the significance of playfulness and openness. Expect a humorous yet enlightening approach to navigating the complex landscape of sexual connections.
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- Understanding sexual connections requires dismantling myths and focusing on genuine pleasure rather than merely maintaining desire.
- Deep human connection drives sexual desire, emphasizing the importance of shared pleasure over the pursuit of orgasm in relationships.
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The conversation centers on the need to dismantle prevalent myths surrounding sexual relationships. Emily Nagoski emphasizes that many common beliefs, such as the idea that distance is necessary to maintain eroticism, are misleading. Through scientific research and her own experiences, she suggests that high-quality sexual connections are less about 'keeping the spark alive' and more about fostering pleasure. Instead of focusing solely on desire, couples should examine what genuinely brings them joy and satisfaction in their intimate lives.
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