

modern romance, a talk with lori gottlieb [video]
53 snips Aug 3, 2023
Psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb discusses the challenges of dating in the modern world, including the impact of technology, abundance of choice, and unrealistic expectations. They explore the importance of openness, vulnerability, and communication in relationships, as well as the effects of hookup culture. Trust, emotional stability, and maintaining a strong friendship are highlighted as the core foundation of a healthy relationship. They also discuss handling emotional instability and embracing personal growth in a relationship.
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Paradox of Choice in Dating
- Having too many choices creates an illusion of endless options, hindering focus on one person.
- This leads to prioritizing initial chemistry over deeper compatibility, potentially missing out on lasting connections.
Prioritize the Right Qualities
- Have high expectations, but focus on character, reliability, and shared goals.
- Don't settle for low standards in these areas, prioritizing comfort and open communication.
Giving Up Easy
- Young people may give up on relationships sooner due to abundant options.
- This avoids dealing with challenges and hinders developing essential relationship skills.