Licensed marriage & family therapist Vienna Pharaon joins Jameela to discuss tough relationships with aging parents, reframing shame and disappointment, EMDR, pattern dissolving techniques, and more for improving mental health. They address setting boundaries with family, navigating resistance to self-improvement, and exploring feedback and rejection reactions in relationships.
Recognize family patterns to improve present relationships.
Address unresolved family issues for positive personal change.
Support and communicate in relationships during challenging times.
Deep dives
Understanding the Family System and Childhood Impact on Relationships
Exploring the influence of family upbringing on communication, relationships, and behavior. Emphasizing the need to assess family of origin patterns and their effect on current relationships. Addressing the importance of recognizing and breaking unwanted patterns from childhood to improve present relationships. Highlighting the role of family education in shaping communication, conflict resolution, boundaries, and attachment.
Resolving Unwanted Patterns and Generational Impact
Discussing the impact of unresolved family patterns and generational trauma on individuals. Advocating for understanding the root causes of unwanted behaviors and traumas. Delving into the process of acknowledging family history to create positive change in personal and relationship dynamics. Emphasizing the significance of recognizing and addressing unresolved issues from the past.
Navigating Relationships During Challenging Times and the Pandemic's Impact
Exploring the challenges faced in relationships during difficult times and the unique stressors brought about by the pandemic. Understanding the demands placed on relationships during periods of crisis and uncertainty. Addressing the importance of mutual support and communication in navigating challenging circumstances together. Reflecting on the impact of external stressors on relationship dynamics and individual well-being.
Embracing Change and Self-Reflection in Relationships
Encouraging individuals to embrace personal growth and change within relationships. Advocating for self-awareness and self-reflection to foster meaningful connections. Acknowledging the significance of personal evolution in enhancing relationship dynamics. Emphasizing the role of acknowledging past experiences and learning from mistakes to promote positive relationship outcomes.
Healing Trauma and Building Trust Through Acknowledgment
Addressing the role of acknowledgment in healing trauma and building trust in relationships. Encouraging individuals to recognize past wounds and traumas to facilitate healing and growth. Highlighting the importance of acknowledging and addressing one's history to establish trust and connection in relationships. Advocating for personal growth and self-awareness as key elements in rebuilding trust and fostering healthy relationships.
Mental Health Awareness Month continues with Jameela welcoming licensed marriage & family therapist Vienna Pharaon (The Origins of You) to answer your questions about tough relationships with aging parents, how to deal with friends or family who refuse therapy and how to reframe the way our brains deal with shame and disappointment. You’ll hear Vienna’s thoughts on EMDR and more pattern dissolving techniques to improve your mental health and more.