343. THE BOOK IS OUT TODAY! (And Why Accomplishments Can Feel Anticlimactic and That’s OK)
May 23, 2024
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The host discusses the thrill and challenges of releasing their book, reflecting on the journey and the unexpected emotions. They explore the importance of enjoying the process over the end result, societal perceptions of anger in women, and the impact of feminist coaching on personal empowerment. Listeners are encouraged to order the book and access bonus content for personal growth.
Anticipation of nearing a goal's completion brings more joy than the actual accomplishment.
Acknowledging and embracing anger as a tool for empowerment challenges gender norms and fosters change.
Deep dives
The Significance of Anticipating Success
The host emphasizes that the most exhilarating part of achieving a goal is the moment when one realizes that success is within reach, not necessarily when the goal is accomplished. This anticipation, when one is 80-85% close to achieving the goal, brings the most joy, based on the host's experiences with business goals and personal milestones like finding a partner. This psychological insight challenges the notion that the peak of accomplishment is the actual attainment of the goal; instead, it's the journey leading up to it that holds the most excitement.
Embracing Anger as a Source of Power
The podcast delves into the concept of anger, highlighting its significance as a potent emotion signaling boundary violations or injustice. The host acknowledges societal biases surrounding women's anger, contrasting the perception of male and female anger. By encouraging women to view anger as a source of strength and a tool for creating change, the podcast challenges traditional gender norms and advocates for harnessing anger as a force for empowerment and social justice.
Closing the Personal Brain Gap
The episode discusses the importance of closing the 'personal brain gap,' which involves aligning thoughts and emotions to effect change in one's life and the external world. It emphasizes the role of feminist coaching in helping individuals navigate societal challenges while maintaining resilience and reclaiming personal power. By addressing the emotional impact of awareness of sexism and providing tools for managing emotions effectively, the podcast aims to empower women to create meaningful shifts in their lives and contribute to a more equitable society.
Having my book out in the world is such a surreal experience. I’m incredibly proud of the work it took to write it, and get it out into readers' hands all over the planet (and, hopefully, your hands too)! But honestly, there have been some serious highs and not-so-highs with the whole process, and I’m diving into why in this episode.