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Dadville with Dave Barnes and Jon McLaughlin

Dr. Alison Cook: When is it time for the talk? (Not that one.)

May 23, 2023
Dr. Alison Cook, a therapist specializing in psychology and theology, discusses connecting with kids, debunking nature vs. nurture, instilling confidence, and talking to kids about parenting failures. Also includes topics such as father-daughter bonds, meaningful conversations, and acknowledging mistakes as parents.
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  • Parents should maintain open lines of communication with their children, creating a safe space for them to express their thoughts and feelings.
  • Parenting is a delicate balance between nature and nurture, with biological factors influencing a child's traits and characteristics while parenting styles and environments contribute to their growth.

Deep dives

Attachment and Parent-Child Relationships

Attachment between parents and children takes on different forms, with mothers often being the primary attachment figure due to biological factors. This attachment is characterized by whole body presence, emotional attunement, and calm nervous system regulation. Fathers can also form secure attachments but may engage in more activity-based connections. The goal is to maintain open lines of communication, creating a safe space for children to express their thoughts and feelings, even when they point out areas where parents may have made mistakes.

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