Dadville with Dave Barnes and Jon McLaughlin

Get ready for a wild ride as we chat with Brett Swayn, a chef from Perth, Australia, whose life journey is anything but ordinary. You'll discover how his profound spiritual experiences included feeling God playfully call him "dummy" and being "absolutely smashed in the spirit." Hear about his less-than-glamorous arrival in Nashville via a Greyhound bus with a broken toilet, his ingenious method of using peeled 'loves' as earplugs in the mission, and why his ideal job involves "red boots and a cape." From getting hilariously lost on the way to Green Hills to surprising dignitaries with his famous fish tacos, Brett’s story is a testament to faith, resilience, and a wonderfully weird sense of humor. Learn about The Cookery: https://www.thecookery.org/ Join us: http://dadville.substack.com Thanks to our sponsors! Shopify - Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at ⁠⁠http://shopify.com/dadville⁠ Quince - Go to ⁠⁠⁠http://quince.com/dadville for⁠⁠⁠ 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! The Road to Kaeluma - Visit ⁠⁠⁠http://jesusfilm.org/kaeluma-dadville⁠⁠⁠ to listen, learn more, or access discussion guides and other bonus content! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dig coffee and vinyl? Help us out by taking this very short survey for a chance to win both! The fellas finally wrangled Charles Kelley! We kicked things off with his legendary brag sheet—apparently, they stopped counting at 80 bullet points! As one-third of Grammy-winning country trio Lady A, you definitely know "Need You Now" (and so does AC radio, judging by how often Charles hears it instead of his own new solo single). But it's not all chart-toppers! We delve into Charles's unique vocal warm-ups (it basically involves singing that song's intro), his declaration that he's "accomplished everything" he needed to with drinking, and how a surprisingly romantic night led to a surprise baby number two (he hilariously takes the blame!). Plus, that "not a big deal" band name change? Turns out, it was quite the story. Sign up for our action-packed newsletter: http://dadville.substack.com Thanks to our sponsors! Nutrafol - For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to http://nutrafol.com and enter the promo code DADVILLE Quince - Go to ⁠⁠http://quince.com/dadville for⁠⁠ 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! The Road to Kaeluma - Visit ⁠⁠http://jesusfilm.org/kaeluma-dadville⁠⁠ to listen, learn more, or access discussion guides and other bonus content! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fellas are back from vacation and have lots to catch up on! Jon recently returned from Europe. He bravely transformed into "vacation Jon," embracing the holiday spirit by not stressing about money and being ready to spend "enchanted money," despite usually being more frugal. He even endured intense cycling in Mallorca and had a run-in (kinda) with Obi-Wan. Meanwhile, Dave took his own family to Trail West, a Young Life camp in Buena Vista Colorado, describing it as a resort experience focused on family bonding, conveniently without televisions in the rooms. They also delved into their kids' music tastes. Dave, ever the music enthusiast, admitted to running a "regime" in his car, making his kids listen to '90s R&B and hip-hop. He uses these car rides as teaching moments for music history. They also dive deep on getting your teenager their first phone. Join us: ⁠http://dadville.substack.com⁠ Thanks to our sponsors! BetterHelp - Our listeners get 10% off their first month at ⁠http://betterhelp.com/dadville Shopify - Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at ⁠http://shopify.com/dadville Quince - Go to ⁠⁠http://quince.com/dadville for⁠⁠ 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! The Road to Kaeluma - Visit ⁠⁠http://jesusfilm.org/kaeluma-dadville⁠⁠ to listen, learn more, or access discussion guides and other bonus content! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Susan Dominus, a journalist and author of "The Family Dynamic, A Journey Into The Mystery of Sibling Success," delves into the fascinating ways siblings influence our lives. She discusses how birth order shapes our identities and aspirations, often more than parental guidance. With engaging anecdotes, she highlights the unique dynamics of sibling relationships and their role in personal growth. The conversation also touches on how financial education and emotional support amongst siblings can uniquely affect development, revealing the multifaceted nature of family ties.

Sissy Goff and David Thomas, experts in child psychology and co-authors focusing on emotionally healthy kids, share their insights on resilience in children. They introduce the Daystar Dogs book series, emphasizing the importance of bravery and coping with challenges. The duo tackles modern parenting dilemmas like over-attention and the necessity of allowing kids to 'sit in the struggle.' With humor and personal anecdotes, they explore how parents can balance support while fostering independence in their children.

Dan Wilson, a Grammy-winning songwriter known for hits like "Closing Time" and songs for Adele, joins the conversation from California. He reflects on his musical journey and the concept of 'awesomeness fatigue' — how audiences engage with extraordinary talent over time. Wilson discusses the therapeutic nature of his new instrumental piano album and the surprising insights of his teenage self. He highlights the paradox of constraints in creativity and emphasizes the influential role of parenthood in shaping artistic expression.

In this episode, Dave and Jon dive deep into the hilarious (and sometimes infuriating) world of dad pet peeves. From Dave's intense dislike for sidewalk chalk on his property–a hill he declares he'll die on–to the endless battle against tiny wrappers on the floor and wet towels left anywhere but the rack, they air their most relatable frustrations. Jon shares his number one peeve, and they both lament the cans that don't quite make it into the trash. Amidst the abundance of humor, they grapple with the tension between wanting a tidy house and the perspective that "you won't care when they're 80." Join us: http://dadville.substack.com Thanks to our sponsors! Shopify - Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at http://shopify.com/dadville Acorns - Head to http://acornsearly.com or download the Acorns Early app to help your kids grow their money skills today. Quince - Go to http://quince.com/dadville for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! The Road to Kaeluma - Visit jesusfilm.org/kaeluma-dadville to listen, learn more, or access discussion guides and other bonus content! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we welcome Heather Thompson Day to the pod. She's a brand-new member of the That Sounds Fun Network and her new book, 'What if I'm Wrong', explores the tension between personal dreams and realities, the concept of God's grace, and the upside-down nature of the kingdom of God. She chats up the fellas about being faithful in your room, navigating life as biracial, and the best parenting advice she's ever received.  Visit Heather Thompson Day: https://www.heatherthompsonday.com/ Join us: http://dadville.substack.com Thanks to our sponsors! Good Ranchers - visit http://goodranchers.com to shop, subscribe, and stand with American ranchers. And remember to use my code dadville to get your free meat for life and that extra $40 off. Shopify - Sign up for your 1$-per-month trial and start selling today at http://shopify.com/dadville Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Lisa Damour, a clinical psychologist and author known for her work on adolescent psychology, shares insights from her collaboration with Pixar on *Inside Out 2*. She discusses the emotional landscapes teens navigate, emphasizing the importance of self-control and emotional regulation. Dr. Damour also delves into practical parenting strategies from her books like *Untangled*, highlighting how empathy and acknowledgment can strengthen parent-teen relationships, particularly during the often tumultuous teenage years.

Momville is back! We are taking this month to celebrate moms and first up is Amy Brown. You likely know her as the long-time co-host of the Bobby Bones Show, but her story is deep, inspiring, and somewhat hilarious. After relaying the incredible story of starting her career in radio (shoutout Culvers!), Amy talks about her experience as the mom of two adopted Haitian children, how much of her personal life she should share, and so much more.  Follow Amy: https://www.instagram.com/radioamy Join us: http://dadville.substack.com Thanks to our sponsors: Shopify - Sign up for your $1-per-month trial period at http://shopify.com/dadville Relief Band - For 20% off your order, head to http://reliefband.com and use code DADVILLE Good Ranchers - Lock in a secure supply of American meat at a steady price today at http://goodranchers.com. Claim $40 off and free meat for life with code dadvile NIV - Save an additional 10% on any NIV Application Bible and NIV Application Commentary Resources by visiting http://faithgateway.com/nivab and use promo code DADVILLE Quince - Go to http://quince.com/dadville for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices