Dadville with Dave Barnes and Jon McLaughlin

Dr. Susan Dominus, a journalist and author of "The Family Dynamic, A Journey Into The Mystery of Sibling Success," delves into the fascinating ways siblings influence our lives. She discusses how birth order shapes our identities and aspirations, often more than parental guidance. With engaging anecdotes, she highlights the unique dynamics of sibling relationships and their role in personal growth. The conversation also touches on how financial education and emotional support amongst siblings can uniquely affect development, revealing the multifaceted nature of family ties.

Sissy Goff and David Thomas, experts in child psychology and co-authors focusing on emotionally healthy kids, share their insights on resilience in children. They introduce the Daystar Dogs book series, emphasizing the importance of bravery and coping with challenges. The duo tackles modern parenting dilemmas like over-attention and the necessity of allowing kids to 'sit in the struggle.' With humor and personal anecdotes, they explore how parents can balance support while fostering independence in their children.

Dan Wilson, a Grammy-winning songwriter known for hits like "Closing Time" and songs for Adele, joins the conversation from California. He reflects on his musical journey and the concept of 'awesomeness fatigue' — how audiences engage with extraordinary talent over time. Wilson discusses the therapeutic nature of his new instrumental piano album and the surprising insights of his teenage self. He highlights the paradox of constraints in creativity and emphasizes the influential role of parenthood in shaping artistic expression.

In this episode, Dave and Jon dive deep into the hilarious (and sometimes infuriating) world of dad pet peeves. From Dave's intense dislike for sidewalk chalk on his property–a hill he declares he'll die on–to the endless battle against tiny wrappers on the floor and wet towels left anywhere but the rack, they air their most relatable frustrations. Jon shares his number one peeve, and they both lament the cans that don't quite make it into the trash. Amidst the abundance of humor, they grapple with the tension between wanting a tidy house and the perspective that "you won't care when they're 80." Join us: http://dadville.substack.com Thanks to our sponsors! Shopify - Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at http://shopify.com/dadville Acorns - Head to http://acornsearly.com or download the Acorns Early app to help your kids grow their money skills today. Quince - Go to http://quince.com/dadville for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! The Road to Kaeluma - Visit jesusfilm.org/kaeluma-dadville to listen, learn more, or access discussion guides and other bonus content! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we welcome Heather Thompson Day to the pod. She's a brand-new member of the That Sounds Fun Network and her new book, 'What if I'm Wrong', explores the tension between personal dreams and realities, the concept of God's grace, and the upside-down nature of the kingdom of God. She chats up the fellas about being faithful in your room, navigating life as biracial, and the best parenting advice she's ever received.  Visit Heather Thompson Day: https://www.heatherthompsonday.com/ Join us: http://dadville.substack.com Thanks to our sponsors! Good Ranchers - visit http://goodranchers.com to shop, subscribe, and stand with American ranchers. And remember to use my code dadville to get your free meat for life and that extra $40 off. Shopify - Sign up for your 1$-per-month trial and start selling today at http://shopify.com/dadville Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Lisa Damour, a clinical psychologist and author known for her work on adolescent psychology, shares insights from her collaboration with Pixar on *Inside Out 2*. She discusses the emotional landscapes teens navigate, emphasizing the importance of self-control and emotional regulation. Dr. Damour also delves into practical parenting strategies from her books like *Untangled*, highlighting how empathy and acknowledgment can strengthen parent-teen relationships, particularly during the often tumultuous teenage years.

Momville is back! We are taking this month to celebrate moms and first up is Amy Brown. You likely know her as the long-time co-host of the Bobby Bones Show, but her story is deep, inspiring, and somewhat hilarious. After relaying the incredible story of starting her career in radio (shoutout Culvers!), Amy talks about her experience as the mom of two adopted Haitian children, how much of her personal life she should share, and so much more.  Follow Amy: https://www.instagram.com/radioamy Join us: http://dadville.substack.com Thanks to our sponsors: Shopify - Sign up for your $1-per-month trial period at http://shopify.com/dadville Relief Band - For 20% off your order, head to http://reliefband.com and use code DADVILLE Good Ranchers - Lock in a secure supply of American meat at a steady price today at http://goodranchers.com. Claim $40 off and free meat for life with code dadvile NIV - Save an additional 10% on any NIV Application Bible and NIV Application Commentary Resources by visiting http://faithgateway.com/nivab and use promo code DADVILLE Quince - Go to http://quince.com/dadville for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week in Dadville, the fellas welcome Tauren Wells—singer, preacher, author, and full-time kid wrangler. His first book, Joy Bomb: Unleash Jesus's Explosive Joy for an Extraordinary Life, is a hands-on look at how to get more joy into your life. Tauren also spills the beans on starting his own church, raising four boys without losing his mind, and squeezing his own life into the cracks between soccer games and snack time.  Check out Tauren's new book: https://www.zondervan.com/p/joy-bomb/ Join us: http://dadville.substack.com Thanks to our sponsors! NIV - Save an additional 10% on any NIV Application Bible and NIV Application Commentary Resources by visiting http://faithgateway.com/nivab and use promo code DADVILLE Quince - Elevate your closet with Quince. Go to http://quince.com/dadville for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we’re tackling the boss-level challenge of parenting teens headed for college with Dave Kozak of Elite College Planning. The fellas get real about the stress of saving for college (spoiler: most families feel behind), the ever-growing cost of tuition, and whether the whole college experience is actually worth the hype—or just a very expensive four-year experiment.Enter Dave Kozak, our financial Yoda for the episode. He breaks down college savings like it’s Money 101 for Hogwarts parents—especially 529 plans, which are basically your magical vault at Gringotts. He also explains the difference between “green money” (the scholarships and grants—aka free money, the good stuff) and “red money” (loans, aka the dark side). Plus, he’s all about helping parents level up their strategy when it comes to understanding financial aid, college pricing games, and how to help your kid channel their inner Elle Woods and advocate for themselves.So if college planning feels like trying to solve a Rubik’s Cube blindfolded, this episode’s here to help you figure it out—and have a little fun along the way.Join us: http://dadville.substack.comThanks to our sponsors!Good Ranchers - Lock in a secure supply of American meat ata steady price today at http://goodranchers.com. Claim $40 off and free meat for life with code dadvile. Shopify - Sign up for your $1-per-month trial period at http://shopify.com/dadvilleNutrafol - For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to http://nutrafol.com and enter the promo code DADVILLE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on the pod the fellas discuss how their neighborhood is attracting patrons with questionable parking instincts. Wait until you hear how the Barnes family enacted some swift justice. Also, they talk about the dilemma of dealing with scary and uncertain weather with your kids. Should you go to the basement or try and squeeze in a few more hours of sleep? All will be answered this week!Join us: http://dadville.substack.comThanks to our sponsors!Good Ranchers - Visit http://goodranchers.com and use the code dadville to claim your free meat and get $25 off.Quince - Go to http://quince.com/dadville for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices