

“Let Them” in Love & Marriage: Stop Trying to Change Your Partner and Start Living Your Life
Feb 12, 2025
Discover the power of accepting your partner as they are, freeing your relationship from the urge to change them. Explore how integrating the Enneagram fosters self-awareness and compassion, leading to deeper connections. Personal stories reveal the importance of autonomy, encouraging couples to embrace their differences. Gain practical wisdom to transform your marriage by prioritizing acceptance over improvement. Dive into a journey of authentic love and learn to give your partner the freedom to be themselves!
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Self-Regulation in Relationships
- Notice what you do when you feel dysregulated in your relationship.
- Reflect on your actions and how they impact your connection with your partner.
Control Paradox
- The more you try to control a partner, the more they'll pull away.
- This creates a cycle of disconnection in the relationship.
Finding Levity
- Christa Harden shares a story about managing a stressful day.
- Instead of venting to her husband, she asked for memes, finding levity and connection.